Aight answer me this......Why is it that when a dude is seen with a different gurl every time you turn around, he's considered a "player" or he's "pimpin"? BUUUT when a female does tha SAME DAYMN thing....she gotta be a hoe? The same actions but different gender. Dude can get money, use tha gurl car, stay with her.....but a female do it she a golddigger. Any comments?? Answers???
soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, I wonder what I'm getting for my birthday since there are so many beautiful young women out there that have recently learned the exact date (Oct. 27th).....somebodies got to atleast be getting me a card or something.............................hint.....hint..lol
It's the way of life, that's why a female dog is a B**ch and a male don't get that label. You accept it and move on. However, if it really bothers you then like the individual said change your thinking and hopefully tothers would. Player, **** they all have negative canotation we just accept being a player more easily than a female.
Oh Well!!!
Since before history can tell, women have been, this subject of incredibly high admiration...They bring us into this world; they are life givers...They are nurturers....For the most part, they teach us how to be people before we even begin to develop our own personalities...There are very few entities, both living and inanimate, that are held higher than women...Yes, us men are of a kingly decent...But in truth, when the royal family is in the public eye, aren't most looking at the princess or the queen?
But as time progresses, the faults of mankind, society, and culture have actually distorted that appreciation for her...We covet her so much, she becomes equated to other thing of desire like diamonds or cars or money....All of great value, but many forget that she is not a thing...And so the lack of personal attachment to her is introduced...There's this slight hint, now, that she is expendible, though still beautiful...So men with many women are considered rich....
And what of the roles reversed?...One factor is the concept that males are expected to ensure their bloodline...and no farmer will ever plant a single seed when they can plant a field...Secondly, remembering the unfortunate notion that she is "inanimate", the thought of a woman with multiple men, is like a car with multiple users....The price is degraded, and so her value is also...The common retort, "Everyone's had her, what makes her so special?"...Only the rare are the ones of highest worth....
Is is fair that men get away with it and women don't?...No, not really...But I tell you what...in school, at work, or even in the social arena...if you're held to such a high standard and expected to acheive it...Does that not have some kind of insight into how high of a value you are believed to posess?
soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, I wonder what I'm getting for my birthday since there are so many beautiful young women out there that have recently learned the exact date (Oct. 27th).....somebodies got to atleast be getting me a card or something.............................hint.....hint..lol
soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, I wonder what I'm getting for my birthday since there are so many beautiful young women out there that have recently learned the exact date (Oct. 27th).....somebodies got to atleast be getting me a card or something.............................hint.....hint..lol
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
THAT'S FROM ME ON 10/27 8)
You know what's hilarious...this was supposed to be posted in a message on Facebook, my actual comments where somethin totally different..but thanks anyway tho!
I was sayin for the first time I agree with Changeplease...women do more of the criticizing of other women, if you all changed your perceptions ignorant men would follow...