Hi everyone.
I need some advice. My current boyfriend is an omega and so is my brother (he has grad. but his brothers are still there) . (I also hope to join an org. also) So i find myself always with the omegas on campus. :o The problem is a friend of mine told me that my being with them makes me look like a groupie. So of course that's not the way I want to appear :sad: even if I didn't want to join a org. I mention it to my bf and he thinks I'm over reactin'. AM I?????????? AND HE HAD TO NERVE TO GET MAD!!!
Well me I personally believe it shouldnt matter what other people think or how they see you as. But, I know the feeling my brother is an Alpha and I used to hang with them ALL the time cause we're tight like that. And some people had negative things to say like "Oh we know what org she's gonna pledge next year" or " I guess they finna have their Alpha Angel line this semester" but I've never heard them say groupie tho. As for over reacting........I dont you u are, u're just concerned with something that u have NO control over. Even if u didnt hang with my Frat they'd prolly think something about you. Thas just apart of life no matter what u do someone is gonna hate. They are gonna say things and think things. U just have to be happy with u and keep it movin cause in the end YOU are what matters not the people and what they think OR how they see you.
Hope this helped
Hey baby-girl,
MAjor-D is correct, People will think what they want to think, regardless of what you do, who you are with.
No matter who you hang with, the KEY is "How you carry/cunduct yourself around then".
Put it like this, if yo uhad a twin sister and she was a Delta, and you hung with her, but wanted to pledge something else, people will have something to say.
I know how Ques are and the image that girls get when hanging around them, but you have a valid reason----ya boyfriend's a que. nuff said.
The bottom line is how you conduct yourself in the public's eye.
Wish you the best......
Well me I personally believe it shouldnt matter what other people think or how they see you as. But, I know the feeling my brother is an Alpha and I used to hang with them ALL the time cause we're tight like that. And some people had negative things to say like "Oh we know what org she's gonna pledge next year" or " I guess they finna have their Alpha Angel line this semester" but I've never heard them say groupie tho. As for over reacting........I dont you u are, u're just concerned with something that u have NO control over. Even if u didnt hang with my Frat they'd prolly think something about you. Thas just apart of life no matter what u do someone is gonna hate. They are gonna say things and think things. U just have to be happy with u and keep it movin cause in the end YOU are what matters not the people and what they think OR how they see you.
Hope this helped
Speaking from the real SISTERHOOD!!!
But I hear you soror because my brother was a Que before I pledge and I knew so many and hang out with them and people was talking about me but..........." They talk about Jesus Christ" I say do what you feel and carry yourself well babygurl.
OOOOOOOOOOOOO-OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP!
it really depends on the campus. Each area has a different vibe. However, at the end of the day, it's all about u. If they know u as a person, and they approve of your character, your friends are irrelevant. I would make a suggestion of you taking the time out to really get to know the members of the org u are interested in, so they can see what u are all about. If u are in any other orgs on campus, step to the plate on different programs/projects and make yourself visible. If u are in any classes with any of them, participate in class discussions. Push come to shove, people are alwayz gonna talk, but if u give them examples to go by, folkz can't assume things.
Thanks everyone (except u changeP, I don't like the "fleas" statement :-D )
Everyone's advice helped, it's just I don't want to ruin my chances at hopefully becoming XYZ. I carry myself well that's not the issue it's not like I party with them or anything like that. Besides my bf/ There is NOTHING but friendship btw myself and the other Ques. I guess I'm just tripping over what my friend said and this dumb girl in one of my classes ( I usually wouldn't even care what she thought, I guess I was just having one of those days).
Wreckless: For whatever reason alot of people tend to "FORGET" that my bf is a Que! But I do understand the image that females get when they're w/ omegas, I guess thats just that way it is.
No matter what you do, you will never surpass a Marine groupie. NEVER. You could bone every one of them out in the open...and you still wouldn't.
So don't worry. :-)
Hi everyone.
I need some advice. My current boyfriend is an omega and so is my brother (he has grad. but his brothers are still there) . (I also hope to join an org. also) So i find myself always with the omegas on campus. :o The problem is a friend of mine told me that my being with them makes me look like a groupie. So of course that's not the way I want to appear :sad: even if I didn't want to join a org. I mention it to my bf and he thinks I'm over reactin'. AM I?????????? AND HE HAD TO NERVE TO GET MAD!!!
hmmmm I can't reall get my wording together I've been trying for like ten minutes and I just can't get it.... I'll try to return later especially since I am in a somewhat similiar situation.
