WHATS UP WITH THESE HIGH MAINTENANCE FEMALES???????

Now of days its seems to be more and more females are going after just money. I understand people want the best,but I am wondering why it seems like a straight obsession for some females. I have never dealt with it first hand,but have watched friends have those problems with females and at one point I thought it was just a sterotype until I heard alot of their stories and it wasn't just the girls they dealt with,but some of my female friends are like that. WHY? It kind of brings up trust issuses like whether or not the female will be down with you during the down times. And, it causes me not to holla at certain females and then I get labeled as being stuck up!!! thats not the truth.

I'm not like that either. I dated one guy who had money...but I didnt know he had money all like that til later on... and when things got ****, his money didnt mean ANYTHING!!!!! I still left him because he hurt me and he was a ****...but when it's serious dating and we're talkin about marriage...I'ma need for him to either be comfortable wit me makin more money than him...or for him to have some plans to make money himself...cause either way we're gonna live comfortably...but casual dating...just as long as we dont go to McDonalds for dates all tha time lol.

well I know a couple of chicks that are like that. I tend to not surround myself with people like that because your friends reflect who you are. So even if you dont act like them, if you spend enough time with them, you will. All females arent like that. Like, I like nice things. What girl doesnt love designer hand bags or hot shoes? I would be lying if I say I don't but I would NEVER date a dude for his money. I believe in karma to much. If I use someone, someone is just gonna come at me later on and use me. Alot of females who are gold diggers arent comfortable with themselves. They probably havent lived the "luxurious life" all of their lives because they arent use to fine things like that; because if you truely have, it wouldnt be a "thang" to you.

females that require a lot from others, cant provide for themselves... How can she(any female) ask a man for something that she cant get herself? It just shows a lack of self motivation. and a willingness to use people

I think it is the girls that your friends are pursuing. Maybe if they decided not to chase after the girl dressed in Chanel everyday then they might me less stressed, but that makes too much sense.