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WHY DO GIRLS COME TO clubs AND NOT DANCE?or is that jus fam?

50 replies · 18340 views · Started by tdx5000 · Dec 2005
tdx5000 oakland, CA
when i transfered down to fam, caLI native., i was suprised at the fact that the girls don't dance... i mean,you don't have to grind on people but jus standing in the back? why come?..... i personally refuse to holla at girls in the club.. yellin in each others ears.....competin with 85,0000 other cats...i'd rather find a better place to get at females that i don't have to pay for. :???:
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OohSheNIICE · Dec 2005
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tdx5000 wrote:
when i transfered down to fam, caLI native., i was suprised at the fact that the girls don't dance... i mean,you don't have to grind on people but jus standing in the back? why come?..... i personally refuse to holla at girls in the club.. yellin in each others ears.....competin with 85,0000 other cats...i'd rather find a better place to get at females that i don't have to pay for. :???:
hahahahahahaha i mean, maybe alot of the girls u see there are to pretty to dance. alot of girls think that way. Maybe some are shy and just dont want to dance. I know alot of people like that. Who knows...
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saxxxmepoetically · Dec 2005
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people dont dance no more all they do is dis 8) i still havent figured that one out.... i mean for older females i have, cause when you are 21 and older, a lot of the time all you want to do is drink, with your girls... sometimes they arent in a dancing mood.... i mean sometimes I dance, sometimes I dont.... i dunno
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· Dec 2005
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If all you came to do is drink with ya girls, then that's cool. Just move ya **** off the dance floor. I mean, stop posting up in the middle, then get mad when dudes try to get at you.
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tdx5000 · Dec 2005
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Serpent King wrote:
If all you came to do is drink with ya girls, then that's cool. Just move ya **** off the dance floor. I mean, stop posting up in the middle, then get mad when dudes try to get at you.
man thats real talk!
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saxxxmepoetically · Dec 2005
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If all you came to do is drink with ya girls, then that's cool. Just move ya **** off the dance floor. I mean, stop posting up in the middle, then get mad when dudes try to get at you.
it must be the females that you talk to, cause i know i dont get mad when someone tries to talk to me(i think im the **** one of the group)i just tell them in a nice way that im cool on them
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· Dec 2005
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^^^...Lol. Umm...I couldn't agree or disagee with you on that one. All I was trying to say is that if you know you're no in the mood to dance/ didn't come to dance/ just wanna post..you need to get out the way. Seeing a grip of girls standing in a circle in the dance area not dancing is all too familiar a sight. I'm not a big guy, so it makes me mad when I have to by pass girls that are like 7 deep, to get to girls who ar actually tryna get something poppin.
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CrunkMonkey85 · Dec 2005
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^^^...Lol. Umm...I couldn't agree or disagee with you on that one. All I was trying to say is that if you know you're no in the mood to dance/ didn't come to dance/ just wanna post..you need to get out the way. Seeing a grip of girls standing in a circle in the dance area not dancing is all too familiar a sight. I'm not a big guy, so it makes me mad when I have to by pass girls that are like 7 deep, to get to girls who ar actually tryna get something poppin.
thank you. one more reason why I don't go to the club... besides having no friends:-(
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we_ · Dec 2005
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If all you came to do is drink with ya girls, then that's cool. Just move ya **** off the dance floor. I mean, stop posting up in the middle, then get mad when dudes try to get at you.
I agree with you man. That's why they have a bar and tables set up at clubs, for the ppl who just wanna drink and chill. The dance floor is for people who want to want to dance, and if you ain't bout dancing, then take you and your 8-inch stilettos off da dance floor! Real talk!
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saxxxmepoetically · Dec 2005
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damn yall are really **** about the standing around in the club thang aint yall... well heres another suggestion as to why females do that.... maybe they are sick of dancin with a bunch of chicks.... cause i know AT HOME not school, females dance more than the guys do. and guys will only talk to you if your on the dance floor
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