Before he cheats..

So we've all seen how Angie served ol' dude in Waiting to Exhale, and heard all the songs about revenge on some dog **** man . My question is this ladies: would you or have you ever made a man really regret cheating on you by destroying his property or causing him bodily harm? and is a man justified in doing the same if a woman cheats on him ?

would i? lol um probably not if he was just my boyfriend... but if he was my husband, fiance,... oooh ol dude is gon get it lol.. but have I no...

I've never caught any of my former boyfriends cheating but there are the tell tale signs such as him not calling as much, especially if he called all the time. Anyway, I never got mad at them enough to do any "Waiting to Exhale" type of stuff! LOL Most of the times I was probably cheating too! LOL So anyway instead of going to jail, the best thing to do is walk on! As that song says, "Walk on by...."

cheating is wrong but people do it neway

well morally i guess you should really just turn the other cheek, and if he hurt you that bad- end it. howeverrrrrr, in the heat of the moment i have broken a cell phone used to stray and inflicted minor facial abrasion damage. :ahem: i say its fortunate that especially in marriages, the court tends to side with the woman! ha! & as for a man doing some ish in return..well that wouldn't even be an issue. i don't know what it is with men, but i feel like the only reason i'd have to cheat is due to lack of interest. in that case i'd just break up with the dude, not mess around behind his back! geez..