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Why Are Men Rude?

10 replies · 1656 views · Started by candicej1983 · Apr 2008
candicej1983 New York, NY
WHY ARE MEN RUDE? Here is a food for thought: You are a young lady working and a young man on the job you work with sometimes is being rude and it is very annoying. All you want to do is just do your work and go home. You don't know whether he is joking or insulting you. It doesn't happen often, but you sometimes feel you are disrespected and then confused sometimes because he is being nice towards you. What is his issue with you? Is it that he has a crush and is too immature or is he just arrogant? Feel free comment ALRIGHT GENTLEMEN....GIVE YOUR HONEST OPINION. THERE ARE MANY WOMEN OUT THERE WAITING FOR YOU ANSWER.
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BisonBoy · Apr 2008
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candicej1983 wrote:
WHY ARE MEN RUDE? Here is a food for thought: You are a young lady working and a young man on the job talks down to you. You feel you are disrespected and then sometimes he is nice. He may sometimes talk to you like a normal person. What is his issue with you? Is it that he has a crush and is too immature? or He is too arrogant. ALRIGHT GENTLEMEN....GIVE YOUR HONEST OPINION. THERE ARE MANY WOMEN OUT THERE WAITING FOR YOU ANSWER.
You lost me after "talks down to you on the job"...
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TSUblueTiger · Apr 2008
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Since it’s a professional environment, it depends on the type of comments that are made. Are the negative comments personal attacks? Are the negative comments related to work? If the comments are personal, there is a possibility that he is interested in you. Maybe he is trying to gauge your temperament. However, I don’t think this is the best approach, if you are interested in a lady. If the comments are related to work, maybe he is trying to keep you humble. Maybe you are an excellent employee that’s far better than the other employees. Therefore, he is trying to keep you humble. Overall, its very difficult to determine his intent or reason for making rude comments. I think the best thing is to express your discomfort with his actions. This will provide an opportunity for him to express himself.
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iRep504 · Apr 2008
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LOL. Does the little girl getting her hair combed have anything to do with your question?
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· Apr 2008
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^^hey, I was wondering that too...^^
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candicej1983 · Apr 2008
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iRep504 wrote:
LOL. Does the little girl getting her hair combed have anything to do with your question?
LOL sorry I could't find another picture
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candicej1983 · Apr 2008
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BisonBoy wrote:
You lost me after "talks down to you on the job"...
I edited, now tell me what you think and thanks for commenting
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candicej1983 · Apr 2008
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i*heart*pie wrote:
^^hey, I was wondering that too...^^
ooops...sorry
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candicej1983 · Apr 2008
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TSUblueTiger wrote:
Since it’s a professional environment, it depends on the type of comments that are made. Are the negative comments personal attacks? Are the negative comments related to work? If the comments are personal, there is a possibility that he is interested in you. Maybe he is trying to gauge your temperament. However, I don’t think this is the best approach, if you are interested in a lady. If the comments are related to work, maybe he is trying to keep you humble. Maybe you are an excellent employee that’s far better than the other employees. Therefore, he is trying to keep you humble. Overall, its very difficult to determine his intent or reason for making rude comments. I think the best thing is to express your discomfort with his actions. This will provide an opportunity for him to express himself.
Thanks for commenting The reason I posted this was because I come across young women in my peer group who have situations such as this.
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SuperFly · Apr 2008
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Depends on what you consider "rude". One of the jocks got mad yesterday because the traffic guy used the word "****" on the air. While he and I thought his comment was at least cackle worthy, the jock thought it was insulting.
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