i don't know about first night hook-ups...them joints usually turn out wrong with or without the unsatisfied partner. (at least, from what t.v. and movies tell me). for the most part however, your performance in the bedroom really depends on the person who's with you. so don't really sit there and ponder it.
First of all CONVERSE is the proper word. You are probably more comfortable with your ebonic word "conversate". Second, do not end your sentences with prepositions (look that word up-see how much you are learning today, aaawwwww)
Third, refer to the previous post regarding upgrading the circle of females you know. You are at a miserable point that you can not recognize a real woman.
Last, Im no longer in college. I am a third year law student-can you say Esquire? Another new word for you. I have my BA from a HBCU-another new word, Alumni. I currently work for the Federal Defense program. I assist in defending sad, lost, angry african american males such as yourself. It is very unfortunate that most of these offenders spent too much time focusing on irrelevant issues, short term gain, and "being hard". But if it makes you feel an ounce better about yourself and asserting your "manhood" by attempting to put me in my place on the internet, by all means use your 1st Amendment rights to do so. Just know that "brownie points" from you or anyone else on here have no bearings on my potential or my accomplishments. Hope you dont become my future client but the stats are against you. You can open your mind now or sign a plea agreement later, Lol.
HBCUGiRL09 wrote: first off, i cant really answer this..I dont believe in first night hook-ups
and secondly doing "it" should always be special.
I Also Agree with you here Lindsey If your going to have any type of incourse with anyone make sure your heart is really in it... as for first night hook ups I dont believe in it at all especially with an individual you only met at a party and only briefly conversed with for a few minutes get to know them more first then see what happens from there...