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light skin vs. dark skin Posted on 12-31-2008
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i just recently watched (like ten minutes ago) the Tyra Show's April 24th episode (Do Light Skin Black People Have A Better Advantage) with my Asian sisterfriend who was nothing short of shocked to find this kind of discrimination within the African-American community. She thought it was stupid tho' because she felt that Black people had enough goin' on in America without having to fight themselves as well. Smart girl. I think I asked this before, but I got a serious case of I-forget-itis, so **** me. Do you think lightskinneded folk in the African-American community get better treatment than darkskinneded folk?
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tbaybee23 replied on 01-01-2009 05:33AM [Reply]
yes they do....white ppl are friendlier towards them because they are closer in color...but dark skinppl face more stereotypes ..but in the blk community light skin have more to prove forgive my spelling and grammer its late ill add more tommorow all this is based on my own experiences im dark skin n my mom n sisters are light
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NeoSoulBrotha from Rosedale, MD replied on 01-29-2009 11:04PM [Reply]

I don't think so. A generation ago, there was definitely a difference, but I don't believe it applies today. I am light complexioned and don't think I've ever received any preferential treatment because of it. If anything, it's been a disadvantage because of Blacks that don't see us as "authentically Black".
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replied on 01-31-2009 02:47AM [Reply]
as u since that
NeoSoulBrotha wrote:
I don't think so. A generation ago, there was definitely a difference, but I don't believe it applies today. I am light complexioned and don't think I've ever received any preferential treatment because of it. If anything, it's been a disadvantage because of Blacks that don't see us as "authentically Black".
quite a few lightskinned friends of mine feel that way, and even though i joke about it sometimes, i understand it's pretty serious, especially with the recent induction of a lightskinned president. i've heard a bunch of 'he doesn't really represent the black people' which is funny, because i thought as the Commander in Chief, he would have to represent all the entities here in the U.S. i wonder, what exactly makes a person 'black' enough to everyone else?
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MariaBR replied on 02-28-2009 07:50PM [Reply]
I have a light complexion and I see both sides of the story. When around black people I am not really black because of my complexion yet I know more about our history than any of them. I really don't see how anyone can be more black than another. Black people come in all shapes and sizes, so A dark skinned woman with a curvy body is no "blacker" than a light skinned woman with no shape at all ( aka me! lol). And I do feel that at times white people treat me differently becasue one I have long hair, i'm skinny and I have light skin, but most of the time they think I am mixed. Yet when they figure out I'm not its a different story. Black people need to stop fighting each other and face real issues together because at the end of the day it doesnt matter if your a light skined or a dark skinned you are still black with ancestors who came from Africa.
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replied on 02-28-2009 11:10PM [Reply]
MariaBR wrote:
I have a light complexion and I see both sides of the story. When around black people I am not really black because of my complexion yet I know more about our history than any of them. I really don't see how anyone can be more black than another. Black people come in all shapes and sizes, so A dark skinned woman with a curvy body is no "blacker" than a light skinned woman with no shape at all ( aka me! lol). And I do feel that at times white people treat me differently becasue one I have long hair, i'm skinny and I have light skin, but most of the time they think I am mixed. Yet when they figure out I'm not its a different story. Black people need to stop fighting each other and face real issues together because at the end of the day it doesnt matter if your a light skined or a dark skinned you are still black with ancestors who came from Africa.
i totally agree. but i'm beginning to think that we as African-Americans have been so brainwashed some from our experiences, others self-inflicted, that we don't really know how to define ourselves anymore. our preferences fluctate and yet, stay static all at the same time. i might just **** for whiplash with the extremes i see within the community.
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KonVillain from waxhaw, NC replied on 03-03-2009 09:27PM [Reply]
im dark skinned and yes i have heard some pretty stupid things and i dont really think it matters if you are light or dark were still african american but becaouse of culture and other things like society or media yes we are brainwashed
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AllPeople replied on 05-25-2009 12:19PM [Reply]
. It is often a surprise for people to learn that, in reality, there is actually No Such Thing As a "Light Skinned Black" person.:o The term "Light Skinned Black" is really nothing more than a racist oxymoron that was created by White Supremacists in an effort to forcibly deny those Mixed-Race individuals, who are of a Multi-Generational Multiracially-Mixed (MGM-Mixed) Lineage, the right to fully embrace and to also received public support in choosing to acknowledge the truth regarding their full ancestral heritage. The people who have been slapped with the false label and oxymoronic misnomer of "Light Skinned Black" person are simply Mixed-Race individuals -- whose family have been continually Mixed-Race throughout their multiple generations. For more information on MGM-Mixed lineage, feel free to view the information at the found at the links listed below: Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Source(s): Generation-Mixed MGM-Mixed FGM-Mixed . -- AP (soaptalk@hotmail.com) .
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MariaBR replied on 05-25-2009 09:16PM [Reply]
Might I add, If you do feel like light skins are treated better by white people it is because most of the time they think we are mixed. It isn't often they will see both of your parents at the same time... So it is an automatic thought for them (most of the time) that we have at least some white in us.
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AllPeople replied on 05-31-2009 04:39AM [Reply]
. It is often a surprise for people to learn that, in reality, there is actually No Such Thing As a "Light Skinned Black" person. The term "Light Skinned Black" is really nothing more than a racist oxymoron that was created by White Supremacists in an effort to forcibly deny those Mixed-Race individuals, who are of a Multi-Generational Multiracially-Mixed (MGM-Mixed) Lineage, the right to fully embrace and to also received public support in choosing to acknowledge the truth regarding their full ancestral heritage. The people who have been slapped with the false label and oxymoronic misnomer of "Light Skinned Black" person are simply Mixed-Race individuals -- whose family have been continually Mixed-Race throughout their multiple generations. For more information on MGM-Mixed lineage, feel free to view the information at the found at the links listed below: Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Yahoo! Groups Source(s): Generation-Mixed : A group for all Multi-racials everywhere MGM-Mixed : Multi-Generational Multi-Racially Mixed FGM-Mixed : First Generation Multiracially-Mixed .
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