I'm torn between 2 NPHC sororities that I love dearly. In high school & undergrad, sorority [A] appealed to me more than , & its members were more welcoming. I didn’t attempt to pledge in undergrad, but now that I'm in grad school & my profession, I feel ready. The tables have turned, however, since being in the "real world".
I'm surrounded by more members of sorority , attend/volunteer at their events, & I've received a warmer reception since beginning this process than with [A]. Sorority has also invited me to join, but I didn't want to commit without trying again with [A]. There's talk of a new line next year, & I still have a case of decision paralysis.
I love them both, but if I'm honest, the sorority showing me the most interest now wasn't my 1st choice. Am I being too picky & superficial? Should I hold out for my "dream pick", or is this a sign that the other sorority is where I need to be?
