okay.. now me and my girl been talking for about a month and a half now... i've known her longer than that though...
So when we hooked up we was at school and we got to spend a lot of time together and everything.. but i did not go to the second session of summer school but she up there (she lives close to jackson)...when i first got home we talked often on the phone and things were still cool... now we don't get talk that often but that is understandable considering we both have jobs, she goes to school and i do not have a cell-phone or long distance from my home phone....she wants me to come see her (we about 2 hrs apart) and i want to but i have not been able to yet financially (sp) or timewise...I wanted to come see her this weekend but she has early morning church service on sundays and her dad likes for her to go out on fridays and stay close to home on saturdays... i get along well with her father and wanted her to tell him that i was gone take her out that night but she is like maybe....she was like i might can't see you then...Am i wrong for being mad for trying to make a sacrifice and come see her and she not willing to do the same?? it is like she expects me to be in total cordination with her schedule... I think one of our conflicts is that her family has money and she is spoiled and that i come from humble backgrounds and had to work for everything i got.. her family pays for her school and football pays for mine (without my football scholarship i don't even know if i would be in college) so i tend to have more value for things that she takes for granted... I want to bring her to my hometown and show her where i come from but then again if she says the wrong thing i will be real mad because we came along way and i will never forget my beginnings...I am feeling like i am putting more into this relationship than her now... should i try to explain it or just say f' it?? also after she told me that she would have a 3some and had tried it with another girl.. i seriously been thinking if she would do that with me.. is she messing wit otha girls that i dunno about and coming back and all up in my face... in my younger days i would not have cared...but i am sorry std's are real..
You aint wrong for feeling like that. But you only got one of two options. You can either break up with her or deal with the fact that you always gonna have to work around HER schedule. Im not sure if you have really told her whats on your mind, and you said u dont have a cell OR long distance on the house phone...so like me and Sabreenah been telling you since last summer...BUY A DAMN PHONE CARD...lol. But seriously, if you really feelin her then you will make the necessary sacrifices and deal with the fact that yall will always have conflicting schedules so yall time together will be sparse...but think about it. In a month, the two of yall will be back at school together again...so there isnt gonna be much of a reason for yall not to spend some time together. Yeah I know you got football season coming up, plus school work. All Im saying is if you really serious about her and the relationship, regardless of what yall both got going on in your lives....you will make it work. :wink:
What's up? Well, I don't think you are wrong for being mad. You two don't get to talk or see each other a lot so you are trying to plan time to see her. It's understandable why you would get mad at her for not trying to coordinate her schedule. However, I don't think you should just say f*ck it. I think you should tell her exactly what's on your mind and pay close attention to her reaction. Then judge. If you are still feeling the same after, then you will just have to make a choice. (Is she worth it or not?) Oh the other subject, when she told you about the 3some thing, how did you react? Did you shine it off or did you ask her about it. If you are uncomfortable with that also, tell her. Don't hold anything back. Let it all and then see what happens from there on.
What's up? Well, I don't think you are wrong for being mad. You two don't get to talk or see each other a lot so you are trying to plan time to see her. It's understandable why you would get mad at her for not trying to coordinate her schedule. However, I don't think you should just say f*ck it. I think you should tell her exactly what's on your mind and pay close attention to her reaction. Then judge. If you are still feeling the same after, then you will just have to make a choice. (Is she worth it or not?) Oh the other subject, when she told you about the 3some thing, how did you react? Did you shine it off or did you ask her about it. If you are uncomfortable with that also, tell her. Don't hold anything back. Let it all and then see what happens from there on.
I was loving the 3some thing like any other guy would but u gotta think if she messing wit random girls who just out there.. that is a risk.... i want the 3some but not if that mean i dunno who all i am sleeping wit when i sleep wit her
Well, if you showed signs of interest at first, she probably thinks that you like it and it is cool. Let her know how you are feeling though and then update us.
