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WHY???????SOMEBODY LET ME KNOW Posted on 07-14-2004
truthBtold

Why is it that if a guy and a female are just in the "talking stage" of a relationship, that the dude gets all hurt and upset if the female isnt all about him. Like if the female has another guy shes talking to at the same time, and he finds out, he gets upset. Whats that about? If shes not your girlfriend, whats the conflict??
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replied on 07-14-2004 04:44PM [Reply]
He caught feelings...probably got mad at himself for falling for ya.
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Loverboy replied on 07-14-2004 06:09PM [Reply]
^^^Not neccessarily true. I know some cats that do that as part of their "game."
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One Thick Diva replied on 07-14-2004 09:21PM [Reply]
If he caught feelings, he can't really get mad if he doesn't let her know what they are, though. She can't just assume. For all she know, he may be talking to someone else too.
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oOoDazzlingDanceroOo replied on 07-14-2004 09:44PM [Reply]
**MissC is 20** wrote:
He caught feelings...probably got mad at himself for falling for ya.
true
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m.Dot from Washington, DC replied on 07-15-2004 04:03AM [Reply]

you have to clearly define "talking" to some folk...some people (guys and girls alike) interpret that as "about to be hooked up"... in ol dude's case, he was either playing jealous to see how you'd react, or he really had caught feelings...
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Its_like_candie replied on 07-15-2004 01:03PM [Reply]
Cause he probably caught feelin's! I think dudes juss tend to think that when u both are "talkin" its okay for him to be all up on otha chicks and think nothin of it. But when yer wit someone else...all of a sudden their feelin's are all hurt and ish. *Cry...sniff...sniff* Guys be trippin like that though. *IMPAIRED JUDGEMENT...Im bitter...so some stuff u mite not wanna take to the head* :lol: :lol:
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PrimeTime1919 replied on 07-15-2004 01:43PM [Reply]
Impaired Judgment? Another sign of hunger. Grab a Snickers.
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replied on 07-15-2004 02:04PM [Reply]
One Thick Diva wrote:
If he caught feelings, he can't really get mad if he doesn't let her know what they are, though. She can't just assume. For all she know, he may be talking to someone else too.
True...but if he was talking to someone else chances are he wouldn't have got that hurt. Unless he liked her more. Or he just wants his cake and eat it too. But still he wouldn't have been that upset if there was another girl on the side because he know he still got someone in his corner.
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replied on 07-15-2004 02:07PM [Reply]
m.Dot wrote:
you have to clearly define "talking" to some folk...some people (guys and girls alike) interpret that as "about to be hooked up"... in ol dude's case, he was either playing jealous to see how you'd react, or he really had caught feelings...
I completely agree
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