Hey fellas this is the situtation
Im up in Chicago for an intern and i've been chilling kinda hard with this guy. Well he goes to school in ALA but his from my hometime of Dallas.
Now he has a girlfriend and stuff but he's always referring to the future about us. he'll make comments like when we get back he has to install a radio in my car. But he refers to me as his girlfriend when talking to his frat brothers back at school.
I like him but never really expected for anything besides us kicking it to go on because of the girl back at school. I don't want to direpect her or what they have so we've never been physicall besides holding hands and just flirting. Any time we go somewhere he's always up under me s that other guys won't come talk to me. I got approached one day and he got an attitude so what's up with that? :roll:
he always texts her messages saying that he loves her but he won't talk to er on the phone or anyting when im around. So how do i read this???
ok lets think abou this. He has a girl right??? He don't talk to her while you are around........that's called creepin buddy. Even if he is not physical with you cheatin can be anything that you do where you know your mate would be angry if they caught you doin it.
You are just his side girl til he gets back to school. He holdin on to you so he has someone to be with when he goes home back to Dallas. But that is just my $.02
girl that man is playing games with you and he trying to be greedy. He already got a girl but he don't want other guys to talk to you that is crazy. You aren't committed to him. stop wasting your time and move on
Hey fellas this is the situtation
Im up in Chicago for an intern and i've been chilling kinda hard with this guy. Well he goes to school in ALA but his from my hometime of Dallas.
Now he has a girlfriend and stuff but he's always referring to the future about us. he'll make comments like when we get back he has to install a radio in my car. But he refers to me as his girlfriend when talking to his frat brothers back at school.
I like him but never really expected for anything besides us kicking it to go on because of the girl back at school. I don't want to direpect her or what they have so we've never been physicall besides holding hands and just flirting. Any time we go somewhere he's always up under me s that other guys won't come talk to me. I got approached one day and he got an attitude so what's up with that? :roll:
he always texts her messages saying that he loves her but he won't talk to er on the phone or anyting when im around. So how do i read this???
Sweetheart...you already know the answer to this. There is no reason for people even to reply cause you know in your heart that he is playing both of yall for fools. Dont be naieve :wink:
The old "One at Home; One Away (at school usually)" scenario...classic.... he'll do what he's doing to her, to you when he gets back to school so don't be surprised.
I don't want to be harsh by saying that he's running game on you, but I'll put it to you like this: If you can't be the tablecloth, never settle for the dishrag. And right now, you are the dishrag, second best, the appetizer before the entree. Meaning, you and I both know that you are not his #1. He may care for you, but why compete for his affections with another? It's just not worth it. And ask yourself, let's say they broke up and he wanted to be with you. Could you ever really trust a man who acts like him? I don't think so. Move on.
The old "One at Home; One Away (at school usually)" scenario...classic.... he'll do what he's doing to her, to you when he gets back to school so don't be surprised.
^^cosigns....
he's being selfish and greedy, wanting his cake and eating it 2. if u honestly enjoy his company and just like chillin wit him, thats cool, have fun! just don't get caught up...and don't let him make u feel bad for talkin to otha guys (or vice versa), tell that ni99a 2 stop blockin!, :wink:,lol !--after all ur not the one in a relationship...
Thanks for al your advice but I don't fell like im being played because i didn't come into the situation expecting anything out of it. I feel like i shouldn't hang out with him though because of the girl back home. I mean we've never hung out all by ourselves we usually in a group but within that group nobody else really talks to me beacusse of him.
Im up in Chicago for an intern and i've been chilling kinda hard with this guy. Well he goes to school in ALA but his from my hometime of Dallas.
Now he has a girlfriend and stuff but he's always referring to the future about us. he'll make comments like when we get back he has to install a radio in my car. But he refers to me as his girlfriend when talking to his frat brothers back at school.
I like him but never really expected for anything besides us kicking it to go on because of the girl back at school. I don't want to direpect her or what they have so we've never been physicall besides holding hands and just flirting. Any time we go somewhere he's always up under me s that other guys won't come talk to me. I got approached one day and he got an attitude so what's up with that? :roll:
he always texts her messages saying that he loves her but he won't talk to er on the phone or anyting when im around. So how do i read this???
