OK...now my bf and i have been together for 6 months now and so my mother knos him and his mother knos me. Now my bf is two years older than me so now that i have jus graduated from hs, im going to a college that is very very near him. You mite be thinking that im following him, but thas not the case at all. Anyway, my mother adores my bf as much as i do, but his mother is not to fond of me at all. Im kinda upset about this, but hey what can i do. I jus wanna kno who out there has had the same experience and how yall took it and did it affect ur realtionship. HOLLA.
Well my situation was kind of different from yours. My mother didn't like my although he was always nice and very respectful to her. He'd say hi to her and she'd just ignore him. He offered to take her to dinner and she was like WHY? He said so they could get to know each other and my mom was like"You're her boyfriend, I'm her mother, what else do we need to know about each other?". My mom would trip about every little thing. She'd let my go out and spend the night at my friend David's house but if I was going out wit my bf she'd trip and be blowin up phone if I stayed out past 12, wantin to know my every move. His mother on the other hand absolutely adored me, she still does even though me and her son are no longer together. She literally told everybody that me and her son were getting married and she still calls me to this day her daughter. We still have a close relationship. She's like my other mom. I can be more open wit her than my own mom, its kinda sad!
I never been in this situation, but if his momma doesnt like you...you might as well deal with it or break up with him and hopefully she will warm up to u. But after 2 years she still aint warmed up to u she apparently just doesnt like you...There must obviously be a reason she dont want you with her son. ( no offense )
My boyfreind's mom didn't like me becasuse she thought I was like all of his other girlfreinds and tryna get pregnant and trap him into marriage *yeah she was on that goood stuff for a hot minute* eventually because I'm so charming she warmed up to me. If you honestly like/love the boy...you gotta find a way to get over it or work it out.
OK...now my bf and i have been together for 6 months now and so my mother knos him and his mother knos me. Now my bf is two years older than me so now that i have jus graduated from hs, im going to a college that is very very near him. You mite be thinking that im following him, but thas not the case at all. Anyway, my mother adores my bf as much as i do, but his mother is not to fond of me at all. Im kinda upset about this, but hey what can i do. I jus wanna kno who out there has had the same experience and how yall took it and did it affect ur realtionship. HOLLA.
In my very first relationship, my ex's mother and I weren't fond of one another. You know how when you meet someone for the first time you pick up a vibe from them? Well, I guess I pucked a negative one from her. I was never disrespectful, but she didn't like me because when I first met her, I didn't talk all that much. I mean, I'm a shy person and when I meet someone for the first time I am kinda quiet!! So, that was stupid.
Has she told your bf why she isn't too fond of you?
My mother told me long ago, don't bring no girl/woman around unless yall have been dating for at least one year. I refuse to get attached to a girl and then your trifling **** drop her.
Only five women have met my mother, and I hold that type of meeting pretty sacred.
Perhaps his mother is still hung up on his ex-girlfriend. . . just give her time.
I was in the same type of relationship with my baby's daddy. His mother did not like me. She was soooooo phoney. And i am also the type of person that when i meet somebody for the first time, it takes me a while to open up, so when i first met her, i didn't really say to much and she didn't say much to me. Well, one day, I went home with my boyfriend to his hometown, we were in college during this time, and all of us went out to dinner. Now mind you, this is like the second time i've met his mother. Well, while we were at dinner, she made a reference to his ex-girlfriend, "Everybody know i love me some (ex-girlfriends name)". So i'm sitting there like "what the hell" why would she say that in front of me. Right then and there, i did not like her. When i first met her I felt this negative vibe about her. But she is so phoney and she is the type of person who thinks you should kiss her behind.
Come to find out she didn't care too much for his ex-girlfriend. His ex-girlfriend come from a real prominent family in their hometown, and it seems that she was just being phoney towards her so she could be able to say that she was "close" to this family because her son dates their daughter, cousin, sister, whatever. I think she is the reason why me and him didn't last. She has only seen my son once, when he was a day old. She's a real ****!!!!!
On the other hand if it continues, the relationship will probably not go on much further. It's difficult to come between a man and his mother.
That is so true, because my baby daddy's mother spoiled his **** rotten and still does. Case in point: In college, he wanted to have his own place, with no roommates (he didn't have a job) his mother paid his rent and all his bills while he laid around all day, he didn't even go to class. And she sent him spending money. She still takes care of him, because he still lives with her.
But i think she making up for his father not be ing around while he was growing up. I don't even think he knows who is father is. Her nagging **** probably ran him away!!!!
I pray that I'm not the same way with my son.
she warmed up to me. If you honestly like/love the boy...you gotta find a way to get over it or work it out. 
