I go'n through read'n on "Would you let her keep your last name??" and I thought why should it even come to that? I think nowadays ppl are too quick to divorce. We take those vows, you let me get all dressed up and invite all our family and friends to witness you best believe we together FOREVER!! Personally, divorce would be the last resort, the only reson I would divorce is if he was directly or indirectly (it doesn't matter which) hustring my kids...other than that I would suggest he Stick It Out!!! :!:
people are in a rush to get married, they dont get to know the REAL person...it's after they're married, that's when the truth comes out....Also, folks get married cause the female gets preggers and marriage seems right...YEAH OK :roll: there are much more divorces than marriges...it's so sad
But back to the point, I would divorce my hubby if:
-He cheated on me and continues to
-He cheated and got the girl preggers
Puts his hands on me because if he puts his hands on my kids...he gone die.::::looking demented:::
Outright continued disrepect
Blatant Cheating
He leads a double secret life with a wife and kids
^^^^ Shoya I almost passed out when I saw ur Usher avater. You know how much I love me some Usher. :lol:
Oh yeah...back to the topic....
I am also a believe that divorce was a last resort...
But if it had to come to that I would divorce over....
:arrow: Cheating more than once
:arrow: Abuse
:arrow: if I ever caught him with another man
:arrow: Cheating with a family member or friend ( even just once )
:arrow: Got another female pregnant