aight so i know thsi guy for awhile and everythin is goin great he's everythin i've been lookin for in a man so i thinking about giving it up to him he neva asked me to do nuttin for him and he dnt no that i want to do this, i cant really tell him cuz when it comes to me to talk bout my feelings well i suck at it. i tried to talk about it to him but the words wnt come out. my friends say im caught up in the moment , maybe they're right but i still want to do this.........so my only question is should i give it up to him cuz i no im ready
If you are a virgin, make sure it's not out of lust but out of love. Don't just give it up because he look so fine **** or he look like he could tear it up, make sure you care about this guy. Cause I hear time and time about people loosing their virginity the wrong way and regretting it.
But just tell him something like "We've been seeing each other for a while now and I really feel for you. Because I feel for you, I want you to share something with me"; then start kissing him on the neck :twisted: ! He should get the point by then.
I'm not going to lecture. Test the waters first, is all I would say. If you like what you see, make your move. Just make sure it is something you will not regret. Holla!
aight so i know thsi guy for awhile and everythin is goin great he's everythin i've been lookin for in a man so i thinking about giving it up to him he neva asked me to do nuttin for him and he dnt no that i want to do this, i cant really tell him cuz when it comes to me to talk bout my feelings well i suck at it. i tried to talk about it to him but the words wnt come out. my friends say im caught up in the moment , maybe they're right but i still want to do this.........so my only question is should i give it up to him cuz i no im ready
Make sure that you are doing it b/c you want to and not just to repay him for being him. If your not comfortable then don't even go there. Since he hasn't asked or broached the subject then don't even bother with it.
You'll respect yourself more by waiting
"my friends say im caught up in the moment , maybe they're right but i still want to do this.........so my only question is should i give it up to him cuz i no im ready"
Well...if that's the case...then it sounds like u already have your mind made up. Why even ask peeps on a message board for their opinions? But i'm guessing if you made this post, then you're having some sort of doubts. And if you're doubtful...why even take it there? U are emotionally and physically bonded to each and every person that u share your body with. Remember that...and don't take it lightly. Think about it, pray about it, and not only follow your heart...but ya mind and spirit as well :wink: .
Make sure that you are doing it b/c you want to and not just to repay him for being him. If your not comfortable then don't even go there. Since he hasn't asked or broached the subject then don't even bother with it.
You'll respect yourself more by waiting
I"ve done that before please make sure you are not doing it 2 repay him because once u start with him he's going to go crazy give it some time maybe let him bring it up, but if u can't wait hey do what feels right!
