should i?

9 replies · 4531 views · Started by j · Aug 2004

rockville, MD

j rockville, MD

aight so i know thsi guy for awhile and everythin is goin great he's everythin i've been lookin for in a man so i thinking about giving it up to him he neva asked me to do nuttin for him and he dnt no that i want to do this, i cant really tell him cuz when it comes to me to talk bout my feelings well i suck at it. i tried to talk about it to him but the words wnt come out. my friends say im caught up in the moment , maybe they're right but i still want to do this.........so my only question is should i give it up to him cuz i no im ready

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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX · Aug 2004

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If you are a virgin, make sure it's not out of lust but out of love. Don't just give it up because he look so fine **** or he look like he could tear it up, make sure you care about this guy. Cause I hear time and time about people loosing their virginity the wrong way and regretting it. But just tell him something like "We've been seeing each other for a while now and I really feel for you. Because I feel for you, I want you to share something with me"; then start kissing him on the neck :twisted: ! He should get the point by then.

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NeoSoulBrotha from Rosedale, MD · Aug 2004

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I'm not going to lecture. Test the waters first, is all I would say. If you like what you see, make your move. Just make sure it is something you will not regret. Holla!

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· Aug 2004

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go head and let him beat

j wrote:
aight so i know thsi guy for awhile and everythin is goin great he's everythin i've been lookin for in a man so i thinking about giving it up to him he neva asked me to do nuttin for him and he dnt no that i want to do this, i cant really tell him cuz when it comes to me to talk bout my feelings well i suck at it. i tried to talk about it to him but the words wnt come out. my friends say im caught up in the moment , maybe they're right but i still want to do this.........so my only question is should i give it up to him cuz i no im ready

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Blutifully Human from Washington, DC · Aug 2004

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rock4forlife wrote:
go head and let him beat

:roll:

j wrote:
"my friends say im caught up in the moment , maybe they're right but i still want to do this.........so my only question is should i give it up to him cuz i no im ready"

Well...if that's the case...then it sounds like u already have your mind made up. Why even ask peeps on a message board for their opinions? But i'm guessing if you made this post, then you're having some sort of doubts. And if you're doubtful...why even take it there? U are emotionally and physically bonded to each and every person that u share your body with. Remember that...and don't take it lightly. Think about it, pray about it, and not only follow your heart...but ya mind and spirit as well :wink: .