Still, you dont just rebound into Marriage. Thats not a rebound, thats like a Technical Foul. Aint nuthin right about that.
haha, i like that
Erek & **** wrote:
This is why we are dogging you out....so you can realize you are making a mistake that can ruin your life for awhile.....
hmmm...that ain't what I took from it...but umm, if ya say so...
**MissC is 20** wrote:
I still want to know the point in getting married at the court house...then having a wedding some months later. Can anyone explain this to me?
**MissC is 20** wrote:
I just want to know the point of spending money on a wedding and the whole nine when you're already married. I can see going to the court house and maybe having a reception afterwards...but why the ceremony and vows all over again.
i feel ya, carlene....i don't really c tha point either, but....everyone has their reasons....& with all of that said...finally got a chance 2 read tha rest of this thread (from where I last replied)....&...
Nia, I'm not gonna try to preach to u....'cause I see some have, and I do agree with most (those who went about it the right way, that is :roll:...i.e. Tres...& EJ, sorta....)
It's almost ALways easier givin' advice when u're lookin' from the outside inwards....& to u and everyone else up here....i know i've seen females or people period (but mostly females) who have their hearts so set on a situation in love that u could talk for ten years str8...& they still ain't tryna hear it...
That's why I say that...disregarding the str8-up negative stuff said in this thread that really had no relevance to ya news....you should really take heed to some of the advice....some (SOME) of these people r really just trying to help, y'know....you don't have to take the advice, necessarily (& i know u ain't)...but just keep it all in mind....
& u know Black folkz gonna alwayz give their 2 centz anyway, whether it be good or bad OR whether u asked (or like it) or not, lol...that's just us - we can't keep quiet....
& like I believe it was Tres that said early on in the thread....if ya love with this person & the future with him is all u makin' it up to be...& u feel ya 110% in all of it....then none of this should've really gotten to u offensively....u just gotta do you....
i wish ya congratulationz one more time...as well as much luck whatever your choice ends up being....& whether or not u do end up marrying him....
whatever's meant to be...will be...
If you can't tell your parents about it...that could be a sign.
We had a discussion about something similar on saturday at a church event and the lady was like everybody was telling her No...don't do it...but she did anyway because she was in love....and she became a battered wife <----not saying this will happen, but sometimes you have to take heed to what people say. Then sometimes you just have to say F it and learn the lesson.
for awhile.....
