Chris already knows about this one..but I really care for this guy, but I also just want to be friends, he broke up with me, and wants me back, he wants to be togeather or nothing at all, I don't wanna lose him completly so what do I do?
you tell him that yall are going to be friends or nothing at all...why do yourself the emotional damage and go with somebody you don't want to be with? and tell him that you enjoyed what yall had n whatnot, but you think that HIS DEMANDS are destroying the chance of a good friendsship...
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or maybe theres some emotional connection that he's made of you and is not ready to let go of...so maybe you should just leave him alone (tasia)
haha I did it last night, I called you to tell you but you didn't pick up and I wasnt about to leave no voice mail, it was soo sad.....cuz he was gettin me mad last night talkin about "Why you playin games, you said you were gonna call me right when you get offa work, but its 11pm, you get off at 9, thats bullsh*t," and I just said it right there, I was like You know what, you're right I need to stop playin games, I don't want to be with you and I knew that for two weeks already, and if you dont wanna be friends that cool with me." he didnt say anything...and I was like alright bye now, and hung up...I feel better now though :grin: I'm happy again
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^^^....You better
haha I did it last night, I called you to tell you but you didn't pick up and I wasnt about to leave no voice mail, it was soo sad.....cuz he was gettin me mad last night talkin about "Why you playin games, you said you were gonna call me right when you get offa work, but its 11pm, you get off at 9, thats bullsh*t," and I just said it right there, I was like You know what, you're right I need to stop playin games, I don't want to be with you and I knew that for two weeks already, and if you dont wanna be friends that cool with me." he didnt say anything...and I was like alright bye now, and hung up...I feel better now though I'm happy again
I'm glad ya happy now....you were really happy when I hit you up this morning. have fun celebrating with ya girls. Lol. :wink:.
Here's another one for ya'll...
Aight, see I've been talking with this guy for a minute (as friends) and stuff. Being that we aren't at the same school, but still not that far from one another, we see each other we can (could) and usually he called like every night (maybe skip a day here or there). Well, last weekend, I was over his way visiting my aunts so I went and hung out with him when I left my aunt house. We just chilled or whateva, nothing major. Well, e'rthang seemed cool... We know that we both like each other and we had talked about taking it to the relationship level but we wanted to make sure that when we do, it's is a well thought out decision or what not. Anyway, I'm a lil worried about him cuz I haven't talked to him since Sunday... and it's Friday now. When I tried to call, I'm getting his voicemail and I left one message (wasn't bout to leave ten million messages), that he still hasn't returned.
My question is, what could be going on? I'm thinking that he's "backing out" and is tryin to stop talkin to me. If so, that's cool... I'm a big girl and can handle it. But I'm also a lil worried (cuz first and foremost his is my friend) and wondering if something is wrong.
^^^As his friend, its cool that you're concerned abou this well being. You should just keep calling to make sure everyting is aight. It's not like him to not call. I don't think you should be worried about the relationship thing. Ya'll knew each other long enough.
Damn, that's flucked up. I don't know dude, but you did give a good enough description for me to give my own experienced opinion. I'm only saying this to try to avoid you pain. I don't think he likes you as much as he thought he did anymore :sad: . This could be for a lot of reasons, but I'm just warning you, that's exactly what it seems like.
Thanks for both of ya'll answers (Serpent King and TheWire).
I guess I'll try calling a few more times. But if I can't get him any one of those times, I'll just look at the entire situation as a chapter in my life and keep it movin'. I just really hope nothin is wrong :-(
