Losing Faith in Womankind...
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Started by Wisdom_Tree
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May 2005
Wisdom_Tree
Texas City, TX
I dont know what it is about the things that us guys go through but are women becoming more and more...
Whats the word....
Dispensible?
Not me personally, but it seems like all of my good guy friends are being sh*tted on. Good guys with bright futures who could have anyone decide to take chances on women who start out great and find some way to not only f*ck sh*t up, but make it seem like its their fault.
*inhale* Ive never seen so many unfaithful b*tches in my life. Treating men like pieces of meat without feelings...Im trying to keep my boys in line, but Im afriad they are going to become players and I wont be able to say anything that will change them around. I dont know if I want to.
Cuz im sick to my stomach. Physically upset.
Anyways, comments...
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To Saxx (and everyone in general):
The definition of being a good and bad guy has less to do with your ability to provide for someone as it does for you ability to make someone happy. Now, being "churchly" good means nothing if youre blind, and being a bad boy (some call ****, i call a Hustla...) means nothing if hes in jail, But I've known some **** people to have a better Idea and understanding about relationships than others. Why?
Hard knocks. Theyve been through alot of relationships, and the reason why they treat some women like hos is because they've seen alot of women and they have a hard time trusting them because they know how shady Some can be. With that they either have a hard time committing because of their own experience or their own preference. As far as the good guy that was spoke of, he obviously was using his moral standpoint to impose preference (which makes him uniquely stupid). I think style of dress and what you do professionally (or not) has nothing to do with your relationship with God or anything. Its probably my liberal standpoint on things, but Im a Methodist and I'll be damned if I make any woman change who she is because of what the "church" says (cuz I couldnt think of any other reason why hed want you to change unless the church instilled that into his mind).
Treating a woman right means youre thoughtful. We are all human and wont be able to do for someone at some point in time, so itd be best if we dont judge someones good/bad status on their wealth or prominence but their actions. I think Id rather pay for my womans phone bill instead of give her a dress as a present... with that said, let me add this final thing.
Relationships change from person to person. Everyone has their own unique way of expressing how they feel and love. Going into a relationship with any predeterminations or issues might result in a short lasting partnership. You either adapt or you dont when it comes to a partner...just find someone you dont COMPLETELY conflict with and if they make you happy as well you might have something. *goes off to think to himself*
#132
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the reason why they treat some women like hos is because they've seen alot of women and they have a hard time trusting them because they know how shady Some can be.
Or is it that they can't trust themselves? Or because they have low self-esteem? Or maybe, they unconsciously look for someone just like them.
#133
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A lot of yall think women want men who in & out of jail, does ****, and etc when in actuality we just want a man with excitement and who keeps our attention. Guys who are shy, really nice, romantic and all that stuff might be "good" but can you keep your woman's attention and become unpredictable.
The only reason why you think women only want jailbirds is because that's what a lot of us have to deal with, not because of choice or preference.
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MeganJerai wrote:A lot of yall think women want men who in & out of jail, does ****, and etc when in actuality we just want a man with excitement and who keeps our attention. Guys who are shy, really nice, romantic and all that stuff might be "good" but can you keep your woman's attention and become unpredictable. The only reason why you think women only want jailbirds is because that's what a lot of us have to deal with, not because of choice or preference.
