Okay...so heres the deal. I had been talkin to this guy for a while and he took my v-card about 2 months ago. I never really cared too much for him, but i did have some feelings for him. And of course I still do feel somewhat attached to him cause he was my first. But yesterday...i was at school walkin to the library and guess who i see?! This **** was posted up wit some other random chick. Soooo it kinda caught me off guard. I tried to walk past em' real quick and act like I aiint see em...cause I juss didnt feel like hearin him lie to me. So as I walk by, he calls my name and was like "Oh you cant say hi to nobody...I see how it is...you do you okay!" Im like..."Yo...I aiint even see you! I wasnt payin attention." I cant even lie...i was kinda p.o'd when i seen him wit that other chick. Cause he never said he aiint wanna talk to me no more...we juss stopped talkin. And I thought we were friends before all tha crap happened between us. But I guess not.
Why couldnt he juss come out and say he didnt wanna talk to me like that no more. GROW SOME BALLS. And he is the prime reason as to why I dont even like talkin to juss one guy...cause u put all this energy into em' and get nothin in return.
Sorry this was soo long...i guess Im kinda venting!
Yeah... I've seen this time and time again. It's always some nigguh that fuccs it up for the next. So do you really want the next guy you REALLY like to feel alienated and uncared for b/c you don't wanna get too attached b/c of what some guy did b4 u? Honestly, at LEAST 1/4 of girls do that exact same thing. You can't blame some guys for other guys' mistakes tho. For your sake tho, please don't go out and try to turn yourself into some **** now. I've seen it way too many times, and judging from what u've said i don't think that's what you honestly want. B/c trust, you're not gonna find happiness like that.
Why do ya'll promise to call when you know full well ya'll won't?
Why do ya'll hide your emotions all the time??
How can I get my guy to tear down that wall thats between us???
How do I get him to see that I am not out to hurt him like his last girl did???
Thanks for taking the time to answer these ?'s.
1. truthfully sometimes we forget, but if your initially interested in that person get there # and call them
2. cant speak for everyone but i dont
3. be open dont have hime guessing
4. be caring to him. truthfully many guys are emotionally weak
Okay...so heres the deal. I had been talkin to this guy for a while and he took my v-card about 2 months ago. I never really cared too much for him, but i did have some feelings for him. And of course I still do feel somewhat attached to him cause he was my first. But yesterday...i was at school walkin to the library and guess who i see?! This N*gga was posted up wit some other random chick. Soooo it kinda caught me off guard. I tried to walk past em' real quick and act like I aiint see em...cause I juss didnt feel like hearin him lie to me. So as I walk by, he calls my name and was like "Oh you cant say hi to nobody...I see how it is...you do you okay!" Im like..."Yo...I aiint even see you! I wasnt payin attention." I cant even lie...i was kinda p.o'd when i seen him wit that other chick. Cause he never said he aiint wanna talk to me no more...we juss stopped talkin. And I thought we were friends before all tha crap happened between us. But I guess not.
Why couldnt he juss come out and say he didnt wanna talk to me like that no more. GROW SOME BALLS. And he is the prime reason as to why I dont even like talkin to juss one guy...cause u put all this energy into em' and get nothin in return.
Sorry this was soo long...i guess Im kinda venting!
okay so here's my question:
how can guys know how much a girl cares about them...even enough sometimes to give them their vcard...how could u just go and act like candie's dude?...why are guys so inconsiderate and dont bother to give u an explanation of how they could call u and tell u they love u and uve been there for them blah blah blah..yet u go to see them and theyre chillin with their girl...i dont understand...i want an explanationd dangit :x
Okay...so heres the deal. I had been talkin to this guy for a while and he took my v-card about 2 months ago. I never really cared too much for him, but i did have some feelings for him. And of course I still do feel somewhat attached to him cause he was my first. But yesterday...i was at school walkin to the library and guess who i see?! This N*gga was posted up wit some other random chick. Soooo it kinda caught me off guard. I tried to walk past em' real quick and act like I aiint see em...cause I juss didnt feel like hearin him lie to me. So as I walk by, he calls my name and was like "Oh you cant say hi to nobody...I see how it is...you do you okay!" Im like..."Yo...I aiint even see you! I wasnt payin attention." I cant even lie...i was kinda p.o'd when i seen him wit that other chick. Cause he never said he aiint wanna talk to me no more...we juss stopped talkin. And I thought we were friends before all tha crap happened between us. But I guess not.
Why couldnt he juss come out and say he didnt wanna talk to me like that no more. GROW SOME BALLS. And he is the prime reason as to why I dont even like talkin to juss one guy...cause u put all this energy into em' and get nothin in return.
Sorry this was soo long...i guess Im kinda venting!
that's why you gotta be careful who you give ya v card to....didn't i tell ya muthaf#ckas to wait??? 8-) (tasia)
Say you by yo self (a girl) and you walk up on this group of guys. One tries to holla at you and you dont respond. Then, for the girl not talkin to you she gotta be every **** and ho in the world. Why do yall do that?
Oh yeah, and howcome when yall try to holla at a girl and she says shes taken, yall come up with the "yo boyfriend dont allow u to have friends?" thing?
And howcome yall just cant take no for an answer?
