queen-of-the-nile wrote: demmeri wrote: queen-of-the-nile wrote: demmeri wrote: What's the deal with black chicks and thugs? Why are yall so attracted to these fatherless idiots? and why does the black suburban-raised male have to pretend to be a **** just to get yall to respect him and to give him some coot?
this is the main reason why i'm thinking about only messing with the latina cha chas.
But, i do acknowledge that there is such a thing as **** appeal..when some girls think "****" they think of someone who is tough and feared, king of the jungle(hood) and they feel privileged to be the chosen queen ( or mistress/ho) of the "king." Im not sayin thats logical, but thats my little theory on why it happens. And as for black suburban-raised pretend thugs...that's the new epidemic on black college campuses :x
I'll take a real **** over a wannabe anyday...i can see us now..."shawty wanna ride wit me, we can get low!"
Dang u really do think this is an epidemic huh? The
majority of Black women aren't dumb and unevolved and attracted to thugs ( im sure you don't really believe this but i gotta say it). And, its ironic that you noted that thugs are merely scared, fatherless boys on the inside (true indeed) but u stopped short of acknowledging the same about the typical black woman that is attracted to these men...gheesh, don't be groupin us all in that "im in love with a ****" category (see: lovher's song "how its gonna be").
I have a feeling he's those type of men who see black women as photo copies of each other. We're all the same to them.
queen-of-the-nile wrote: I'll take a real **** over a wannabe anyday...i can see us now..."shawty wanna ride wit me, we can get low!"
That's just as bad... :???:
i know...jus a lil sarcasm,thats all :-)
You can't be scaring preppy college boys like that... :???:
i think that demerri is only looking at the issue from one viewpoint. has anyone ever considered the fact that there are also **** girls who like good boys and **** guys who like good girls. Its not always a matter of whether or not the good gurls like the bad guys. it can also mean that the bad boys like the good gurls. opposites attract and it is not always about the gurl it can also be about the guy's prefrences. i agree with the fact that alot of black men lack strong positive role models in their lives.
I take ie that all you guys posting on this topic are from surburban areas, far away from inner city youth. You have no idea of what your talkin about, honestly.
Mrs. Obannon wrote: I take ie that all you guys posting on this topic are from surburban areas, far away from inner city youth. You have no idea of what your talkin about, honestly.
I'm from brooklyn, NY and i just think that there's nothing wrong with good gurls going for **** guys. And i dont agree with demeri at all. There are plenty of good black women out there you just have to look around. Its not always about the whole **** image. There is some really good sistas out there who at the end of the day can appreciate an intellectual black man. I dont really think that the **** life is actually a choice. The real real thugs know why they do what they do. It could be because of a lack of parental involvement or it could just be a way to rebell from to much parental involvement. Nobody really knows it all depends on the person. But back to what I was saying. There is lots of black women out there. Its not the end of the world. Thugs are not out there to steal all the women they have as much fair advantage to the **** as any other black man.
