have you considered going after different girls that you normally don't go for....because you might be doing the same thing, talking to the wrong girls that are not looking for gentlemen at the time...because sadly enough, there are girls out there who are not ready mentally to be with a gentleman especially in high school but even in college its still occurring. you just have to be able to differentiate one from another.
once again, i would like to say for some its a phase-where you need to feel alive or dangerous, therefore you get a bad guy or in my own words a dog...to treat you badly enough to make you feel ...just feel anything. its sad really, but some females are going thru all these!
but dont loose hope because there are a lot of females out there like myself who have grown past all that and are looking for gentlemen!
I think you hit the nail on the head B. Some girls just aren't mentally ready for the gentleman. It isn't so much trying something new. I learned over the years to widen the range a bit. All it really takes to deal with this problem, is the ability to adapt to that person's needs. They want the bad guy, they can get the bad guy. But after a while, a gentleman wants a lady and I hear there are plenty of them at the college level.
dont pay too much attention to Superfly...lol...he sounds like he gave up hope on females already...thats not what you really need to hear or do at the time....you need to go on with a positive outlook and in hopes that if your play cards right , you will hit a jackpot. and i am preaching to myself as well...! and learning that in time we will get whom we deserve regardless of what is around us.
its great to get a male perspective as guy, but i am female and just got done with my sophomore year in college, so i could also be of some help......!
actually i am an old fashioned type of girl, i let the guy approach me not the other way around....no matter how much i might i like him......a guy who can approach me with some respect, a good head on his shoulder and good intentions will mostly likely have a pretty good chance with me, but yet again....they are rare nowadays....!
Doesn't necessarily take you approaching someone for you to talk to someone that you normally wouldn't have anything to do with. But it sounds like you're daring somebody to come and talk to you, as opposed to you just wanting a good man as a companion. Who would approach a girl after hearing rhetoric about most men being no good, or not worth your time? Not saying that its the only thing that you speak about, but that type of attitude shows through when someone interacts with you.
Aight Super, you have 2 years experience. Why dont you tell me whats really going on with the girls? Just trying to get a male's perspective.
My opinion follows exactly what I've said on here before. Most women fall into one of two categories
1) Women who are so fed up and/or so lonely that they'll settle for anything they can get their hands on, as long as there's someone "there".
2) Women who are too concerned about what guys don't do, instead what they accomplish or achieve.
Either case gives me no incentive to being a good man.
