this is for yall guys

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*cackles* what college do you go to?

I'm a Junior in High School.

have you considered going after different girls that you normally don't go for....because you might be doing the same thing, talking to the wrong girls that are not looking for gentlemen at the time...because sadly enough, there are girls out there who are not ready mentally to be with a gentleman especially in high school but even in college its still occurring. you just have to be able to differentiate one from another. once again, i would like to say for some its a phase-where you need to feel alive or dangerous, therefore you get a bad guy or in my own words a dog...to treat you badly enough to make you feel ...just feel anything. its sad really, but some females are going thru all these! but dont loose hope because there are a lot of females out there like myself who have grown past all that and are looking for gentlemen!

Have you tried the same thing?

I think you hit the nail on the head B. Some girls just aren't mentally ready for the gentleman. It isn't so much trying something new. I learned over the years to widen the range a bit. All it really takes to deal with this problem, is the ability to adapt to that person's needs. They want the bad guy, they can get the bad guy. But after a while, a gentleman wants a lady and I hear there are plenty of them at the college level.

Aight Super, you have 2 years experience. Why dont you tell me whats really going on with the girls? Just trying to get a male's perspective.

dont pay too much attention to Superfly...lol...he sounds like he gave up hope on females already...thats not what you really need to hear or do at the time....you need to go on with a positive outlook and in hopes that if your play cards right , you will hit a jackpot. and i am preaching to myself as well...! and learning that in time we will get whom we deserve regardless of what is around us. its great to get a male perspective as guy, but i am female and just got done with my sophomore year in college, so i could also be of some help......!