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Friends with benefits Posted on 06-06-2004
ChoklatPoet

Do you think its really possible to just have a friend with benefits without getting ANY feelings involved at ALL??
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oOoDazzlingDanceroOo replied on 06-06-2004 06:36PM [Reply]
Rodiculous wrote:
Simply_EJ wrote:
No... I feel being somebodies friend because they have money or something that can benefit you is wrong.
Da fukk u talkin bout?
LOL!
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replied on 06-06-2004 07:17PM [Reply]
I say it's possible, cuz I'm dealing with it now. My friend and I are real cool, we chill, talK on the phone and all that and even with the "Benifits" and all... ain't nothin' changed. She still tell me about the other dudes she be looKin at, and those that are after her, and I tell her the same. No feelings involved. It's actually a cool thing to have with a person... but that's just me
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BmoreBabigyrl replied on 06-06-2004 07:23PM [Reply]
ReDD HarLeM DeViLL wrote:
I say it's possible, cuz I'm dealing with it now. My friend and I are real cool, we chill, talK on the phone and all that and even with the "Benifits" and all... ain't nothin' changed. She still tell me about the other dudes she be looKin at, and those that are after her, and I tell her the same. No feelings involved. It's actually a cool thing to have with a person... but that's just me
I feel what u sayin.. but they longer the relationship goes on like that.. she might what something more.. I'm in a relationship like that now by choice.. but as much as I try 2 deny it.. im startin 2 catch some feelings for the man... hey.. maybe its just me
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 06-06-2004 07:27PM [Reply]
I can see that im not on the same page as most of you(which is how it usually is).I just dont see the point in sleeping with my friend.I think thats crossing the line and going from friends to buk buddies.If one of my male friends asked me to do that, I'd lose respect for him.
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replied on 06-06-2004 07:44PM [Reply]
BmoreBabigyrl wrote:
ReDD HarLeM DeViLL wrote:
I say it's possible, cuz I'm dealing with it now. My friend and I are real cool, we chill, talK on the phone and all that and even with the "Benifits" and all... ain't nothin' changed. She still tell me about the other dudes she be looKin at, and those that are after her, and I tell her the same. No feelings involved. It's actually a cool thing to have with a person... but that's just me
I feel what u sayin.. but they longer the relationship goes on like that.. she might what something more.. I'm in a relationship like that now by choice.. but as much as I try 2 deny it.. im startin 2 catch some feelings for the man... hey.. maybe its just me
...Hmmm.... See the thing is, No matter who or what, you are always going to catch feelings for some one or thing in some way some how. And that mainly comes from being around them so much to the point where you just... one day want them. You Know everything else about them eXcept what it would be liKe to have them as your own. LiKe my friend and her friend... They were friends since childhood, tot he point where they saw each other as family. Well just recently, her friend decides he wants her further than he already had her. She didn't feel that way for him, but she gave it a try... that lasted for a good 3 weeKs and now the friendship is lost. See I say had they had just stayed friends, and did whatever on the side and not got involved... things would be different now. But Oh well...
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replied on 06-06-2004 07:46PM [Reply]
ChoklatPoet wrote:
Do you think its really possible to just have a friend with benefits without getting ANY feelings involved at ALL??
It depends on one's personality. If your real emotional it won't work
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La replied on 06-06-2004 09:57PM [Reply]
I think its possible, but for me its always been hard. No matter how much I just try to keep it on a friends with benefits level, I always seem to start letting my emotions get into it and have feelings for that person.
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lostsquishy replied on 06-06-2004 11:04PM [Reply]
Yes. I know from experience.
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Kismet_TNT replied on 06-07-2004 12:01AM [Reply]
I can't really say because I've never had a friend with benefitd. You may could and you may can't. I really hink it depends on the person...but then again don't hold me to it.
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SAG-NASTY_FELLA replied on 06-07-2004 12:44AM [Reply]
WHEN U R SINGLE..........FRIENDS W/ BENEFITS IS THE BEST THING IN THE WORLD.....TILL ONE OF YALL GET WHIPPED :cry:
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