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long distance relationships Posted on 02-16-2008
t2dakwont

i know a lot of you guys are about to graduate and head on into college as the class of 08. this question/discussion is open to all students tho but how u guys feel about long distance relationships? anybody in one right now that they wouldn't mind sharing about? like do u plan to end it with ur beau when august comes? i know i found my guy my senior year of highschool and was like "**** there's no way i can let this guy slip through my fingers". we've been together almost three years and for almost two we've held it down as a long distance relationship, seein each other only over breaks (thanksgiving, xmas, and summer vacation). its not exactly for the weak-hearted but i actually think it has made our relationship a lot stronger. we're able to meet other people (meet not date) and see wat the world is like without one breathin on the others neck. not to mention when we DO see each other it's almost as if seeing one another for the first time. just wanted other pplz thoughts
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C Nels replied on 02-21-2008 07:42AM [Reply]
BisonBoy wrote:
Now see thats wat i call grade A, proving tha stats wrong... I mean im sure out of the 1 and 4 african american males whom are supposedley future priosners there's a group of four, with four doctors....lol Nah really congrats tho man... ur an acception to the rule...
Thanks my brother!
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BisonBoy from norfolk, VA replied on 02-21-2008 08:23AM [Reply]

yup - Long distant pimpin...
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babigurl870 from Osceola, AR replied on 02-22-2008 05:42PM [Reply]

Jamaican Shawty wrote:
I've seen the end results of long distance relationships and I rather spare the stress and drama and put a pause on the relationship when I leave....remain friends..chill on breaks..and if the feelings are still mutually present after I graduate....MAYBE we can rekindle whatever spark we had. Fair enough right...?
This strait sounds like me a month ago....I'm currently in a long distance relationship right now, and we have been discussing "us in college". I was all for breaking up and gettin back together later, maybe, until I started catchin real hard feelings for him. Now I kinda feel like we should stay together as long as we can. I'm still pretty torn on what to do and I made him stop talkin about it until that time came.
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t2dakwont replied on 02-23-2008 02:39AM [Reply]
babigurl870 wrote:
This strait sounds like me a month ago....I'm currently in a long distance relationship right now, and we have been discussing "us in college". I was all for breaking up and gettin back together later, maybe, until I started catchin real hard feelings for him. Now I kinda feel like we should stay together as long as we can. I'm still pretty torn on what to do and I made him stop talkin about it until that time came.
trust me if it is meant to be it will prevail all...as ive stated, im in one now. its tough but if u feel like he's worth it and vice versa then you'll be fine
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Phylicia215 replied on 02-23-2008 09:37PM [Reply]
I think they can work if the two people trust each other and have developed a deep, emotionally-connected relationship. If not the distance can tear two people apart. But of course its nothin wrong with trying if both parties think it can work.
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replied on 02-24-2008 05:31PM [Reply]
Nyla wrote:
I'm in a long distance relationship at this present time. We've been together for a year. I've known him since I was 15yrs old. He's my best friend and I hope to one day become his wifey! (Mrs. Norris) We both know the long distance is temporary due to our career choices but, we hanging in there..lol. I truly couldn't ask for a better mate.
AWWWWWW....that is so sweeet! Just when I thought Disney was lyin' to us all...
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Nyla replied on 02-25-2008 07:43AM [Reply]
i*heart*pie wrote:
AWWWWWW....that is so sweeet! Just when I thought Disney was lyin' to us all...
LoL.. U silly.
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TSUblueTiger replied on 02-25-2008 02:18PM [Reply]
Personally, I have never experienced a long distance relationship. However, if distance is the only issue, I would not be opposed to it. If things get serious enough, the distance will only be a short term problem. If an individual is compatible with you, don’t let the distance bother you.
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t2dakwont replied on 02-27-2008 10:46PM [Reply]
TSUblueTiger wrote:
Personally, I have never experienced a long distance relationship. However, if distance is the only issue, I would not be opposed to it. If things get serious enough, the distance will only be a short term problem. If an individual is compatible with you, don’t let the distance bother you.
couldnt have said it better myself! dont let the distance **** the love! its hard...lord knows it is hard but if he/she means as much to u as u say then it is definitely worth it!!!! LONG LIVE THE LDR (long distance relationship)!
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BisonBoy from norfolk, VA replied on 02-28-2008 12:05PM [Reply]

Anyone have any long distance relationships that "didnt" work... Or am i the only one...
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