Before he cheats..

14 replies · 7569 views · Started by MiA_theGREAT · Apr 2008

Hustletown, TX

MiA_theGREAT Hustletown, TX

So we've all seen how Angie served ol' dude in Waiting to Exhale, and heard all the songs about revenge on some dog **** man . My question is this ladies: would you or have you ever made a man really regret cheating on you by destroying his property or causing him bodily harm? and is a man justified in doing the same if a woman cheats on him ?

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smc112 from Laguana Hills, CA · Apr 2008

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BisonBoy wrote:
Well if u all dont mind my heterozygous XY gender phenotypes in tha buildin... If he cheated, and you caught him in the act, dont you think tha fact that you spilled salt on his game with the other girl is enough pain for one man to bear... .

Spoken from a true male! LOL

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smc112 from Laguana Hills, CA · Apr 2008

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SuperFly wrote:
If you lack the ability to keep the attention of a dog, how can you get mad at him? Not saying that anyone deserves to be cheated on... but I never hear of anyone reflecting on themselves and learning from the situation. Then you end up in the same situation with another dude and get twice as **** off because its happened for the second time. *shrugs* But what do I know? I only get the repercussions from the bullsh*t that someone else has performed.

Most of the time when men cheat, it has nothing to do with the woman. Some men just have character issues. 9 times out of 10, they are habitual liars also. Lieing and cheating go hand in hand. If you observe closely, you will find other areas where they lack morals. Anyway, too bad you have to take the fallout from another man's mistakes. Blush

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sweet_honeybu from Riverside, CA · Apr 2008

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SuperFly wrote:
If you lack the ability to keep the attention of a dog, how can you get mad at him? Not saying that anyone deserves to be cheated on... but I never hear of anyone reflecting on themselves and learning from the situation. Then you end up in the same situation with another dude and get twice as **** off because its happened for the second time. *shrugs* But what do I know? I only get the repercussions from the bullsh*t that someone else has performed.

Well, if i lack the ability to keep the attention of a dog, wouldn't it be better for the both of us if he told me instead of waisting my time and making situations worse... now i just got done reading cosmopolitan haha so imma put this out there: if a woman is not doing enough for u, in the bed not dressing up or whatever, tell her, nicely, and if she cares she will definitely try to improve the relationship... just my 2 cents

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· Apr 2008

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SuperFly wrote:
If you lack the ability to keep the attention of a dog, how can you get mad at him? Not saying that anyone deserves to be cheated on... but I never hear of anyone reflecting on themselves and learning from the situation. Then you end up in the same situation with another dude and get twice as **** off because its happened for the second time. *shrugs* But what do I know? I only get the repercussions from the bullsh*t that someone else has performed.

Reflection is done...just not in the right way. More often than not, when the reflection is done, it is usually done from a physical aspect, i.e: I didn't wear enough make-up, I need to work out more, I should have gotten better lingerie, etc. As opposed to: what made this relationship go bad and how can I prevent this from happening again? Too much is placed on one: the female and two: her looks--especially when it comes to the relationship tanking. Better, lasting relationships can result from relationships being viewed as a 50/50 deal that incorporates more than just the aesthetics. Mellow