In the wrong family
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Started by Orca51
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Jul 2008
Orca51
Chesapeake, VA
wow that was alot to read...lol no it wasn't
well i could relate to most of the things you said except in my family all my cousins rely on me they think i'm the chosen child so all the pressure was/is on me to succeed in highschool and in college
so stressful sometimes....for instance in my family this year i had a bad year because my mom lost her job and everything in life was crappy...and my family found out that my gpa had dropped from a 3.4 to a 3.1......and they said some of the most insulting things...which really and i mean really upset me...because the 2 cousins below me have gpa's that are barely 1.0s.....but anyways
Your not always going to like who you are related to (which is another reason i want to go out of state for college) but they are your family whether or not they like you or if you don't like them...in my opinion just do you...stay true to yourself even though it may seem like its 1 against 20 or how many people are in your family...im the "odd ball" of my family...but just stay strong plus when you become rich...they will come around..then you can kick them to the curb....just kiddin
#12
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yeah but you might still need someone to cosign for the apartment
#13
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unless you live in the hood but hey money talks..people will do anything for a little paper these days
Well that might be kind of hard. Do you think I'd need a co-signer if I kept the rent paid 3 months ahead of time because wouldn't the issue be that I don't have enough credit yet?
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yeah thats true but it depends on the landlord you have to ask around
I can afford that. I have a pretty nice savings. Like I said earlier I've always saved half my checks. I know they will want first and last in advance. So if I give them first, last, + 3 more months wouldn't that kind of override not having someone to co-sign with me?
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it all depends on the landlord some like money some like to follow the rules
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Orca51 wrote:Also...can I get a studio apartment at 18?
