Be confident but not stuck up, that is a huge turn off. Be pleasant to everyone but not annoying. If I see a guy being rude to someone else or making fun of anyone forget it, that just means you are immature and your just a bad person. I want to know that you are real, human... don't make yourself out to be more than you are because I like honesty and modesty. Say excuse me miss or come up with something that won't offend us... saying baby, honey, or cutie does not work, at least not for me.Be cordial and respectful...women love humor. PLEASE leave that whole hood/ghetto act at home, there is nothing cute about it, it is just annoying. Make them feel pretty but don't look at em like we are a piece of meat and you haven't eaten in days. I think I covered it all lol.. let me know if not lol
Another tip is don't say "hey beautiful". That is irritating. Have enough game to come up with something original that doesn't include complimenting a woman on her physical appearance. It would be best to say, "Hi, I'm so and so, what is your name?" If you feel a woman is acting standoffish, don't keep asking her questions and bugging her. Leave her alone, because she either has a significant other or she's not interested in you. No amount of compliments will change her mind if she's not interested.
If you feel a woman is acting standoffish, don't keep asking her questions and bugging her. Leave her alone, because she either has a significant other or she's not interested in you. No amount of compliments will change her mind if she's not interested.
I thought women liked a little persistence and not a man who's afraid of a little challenge?
I thought women liked a little persistence and not a man who's afraid of a little challenge?
There's a fine line between being persistent versus obnoxious. If a woman is into a guy she might like persistence, but if not, the guy will get on her nerves.
I Like Men Who Approach Me As If They Already Know Me Like Im A Friend/homie Girl....all That Extra "baby/sweetheart'' Is Out Tha Window.
If A Man Appears Cool, Humble, And Down To Earth....we Can Take Tha Conversation From There Cuz 9/10ths Of Tha Time If I Meet A Dude In Tha Streets It Goes No Further Than That. I Would Just Say Be Yourself...dont Try 2 Hard And Dont Come Across Overly Aggressive...if A Female Is Feelin You-u Will Kno It. But If U Get Tha Vibe A Female Aint Feelin You Just Excuse Yourself And Go About Your Buisness.
I guess some men feel that way, because a lot of them aren't approaching women. Most of them just sit up and look. It is more of the younger generation of men. Older guys in the 30 and up range aren't afraid to approach women. Don't go to a club nowdays with the younger men, because all you see them do is sitting up looking and texting on the phone. The girls are usually with their cliques dancing by themselves and waiting for someone to approach, and it never happens. That is why I don't go to any parties or clubs anymore because the scene is just pathetic. I'm glad that I have a boyfriend and don't have to worry about if a man going to approach or not. My boyfriend approached me in a nice way. Sometimes you have to feel sorry for a woman who's on the dating scene. That is why I'm ready to go on and get married, because I don't like the dating scene now. The dating scene has changed.
Umm brotherman, I think the term you're looking for is "hostile". A "hostel" is a place of lodging. 
Carry on.
I'm glad that I have a boyfriend and don't have to worry about if a man going to approach or not. My boyfriend approached me in a nice way. Sometimes you have to feel sorry for a woman who's on the dating scene. That is why I'm ready to go on and get married, because I don't like the dating scene now. The dating scene has changed.
