Honestly you're question can't be answered that simply with an either or answer. When you see someone out and about, the initial attraction won't be to their personality, it's their look and maybe the personality shines through in how they look as in dress. Personality is what draws someone into wanting to know them and being mentally attracted to someone.
Well as said before, looks attract you to a person, but personality is what keeps you interested or in some cases causes you to lose interest. Personally, i've met a lot of fine females with really sh***y attitudes
i would say both-I really can't choose...if u got good looks and a bad personality I would 4get ya real quick but if u got a good personality---we can work on the looks...depending on how bad it is....i been wit plenty of fine a** dudes who treated me like sh*t but also some okay lookin guys who treated me like a queen...but if u **** ****...i won't care about the personality...that's jus me!
Looks come before personality point blank. They do influence each other though. If I think a guy is looking good, but he has a bad personality, then that'll turn me off. Just like a good personality can make an ok looking guy, look cute. But an **** **** guy can never attract me, I don't care how good his personality may be.
Let's be serious, unless you have some bizarr-o ESP powers that allows you to read the aura's of people you see, the're no way you could know who had a good personality at a first glance. Yeah, appearance may fade, but it is what initially attracts people to you. There is no getting around that fact...
Actually, you can't pick one or the other its both. Just meeting a person of course off top its how they look. But once you get to know em if they attitude is foul then they gotta go, no matter how good they look. Looks and personality go hand in hand. :wink:
PERSONALITY BECAUSE THE FINEST GUY IN THE ROOM COULD TREAT YOU LIKE THE -ISHEST PERSON IN THE WORLD. BUT THE UGLYIEST GUY COULD TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN, SO I HAVE TO GO WITH PERSONALITY. It just like a book the cover looks good but will you be impressed with the overall story.
