I just got to put this one out there....
Do you believe in Marriage Yes or No... and why or why not.
I just got to say that i don't because of the simple fact that i don't think that i have to prove to anyone that i love my "soulmate"... i think it's a wate of time and money.... i think that if you love someone, you can live together forever just like you were married... just without the whole wedding costing you a fortune...
that's just me but halla back with what you think about marriage :wink:
girl i defitnally wanna get married to my boyfriend, but i wanna do it when were are both mature enough to handle it ya know i think marriage is a beautiful thing and i wouldnt want just a live in lover for 10 -15 years without the thought of marriage. I think i'm mature its just my boyfriend aint but he the one who brought it up! so i think its a good thang!
Of all people you'd be the one bringing up ya boyfriend, but hey whatever makes ya chin wet
haha i know riii but i mean it might not nessciarly be him i mean i am goin off to college in less than a year but if i would have to choose it would be him
I just got to put this one out there....
Do you believe in Marriage Yes or No... and why or why not.
I just got to say that i don't because of the simple fact that i don't think that i have to prove to anyone that i love my "soulmate"... i think it's a wate of time and money.... i think that if you love someone, you can live together forever just like you were married... just without the whole wedding costing you a fortune...
that's just me but halla back with what you think about marriage :wink:
I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.
I think marriage is a beautiful thing. I wouldn't want to just live together and act as if me and my significent other were actually married; because, that would be living in sin, unless the relationship is platonic.
Although I've been married n divorced *coughs* Demmeri lol. Naw but, I think marriage is beautiful, when its real, n 4 the right reasons. I definately want 2 get married n have my fairy tale wed n, wit my lovely 7 carat heart shaped diamond, sit n n platimun. ( sorry ya'll, I had drifted away). That is something I always dreamed of. I just hope I b lucky n meet that 1, 1 day cuz I definately want 2 get married n have about 3 kids, achieve The American Dream. lol :wink:
Although I've been married n divorced *coughs* Demmeri lol. Naw but, I think marriage is beautiful, when its real, n 4 the right reasons. I definately want 2 get married n have my fairy tale wed n, wit my lovely 7 carat heart shaped diamond, sit n n platimun. ( sorry ya'll, I had drifted away), wit my beautiful love n husband, all my friends n family, n my Momma give n me away. Awww I can't wait, its gonna b special. That is something I always dreamed of. I just hope I b lucky n meet that 1, 1 day cuz I definately want 2 get married n have about 3 kids, achieve The American Dream, etcetera, etcetera. lol :wink:
I just got to put this one out there....
Do you believe in Marriage Yes or No... and why or why not.
I just got to say that i don't because of the simple fact that i don't think that i have to prove to anyone that i love my "soulmate"... i think it's a wate of time and money.... i think that if you love someone, you can live together forever just like you were married... just without the whole wedding costing you a fortune...
that's just me but halla back with what you think about marriage :wink:
I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.
marriage is beautiful.....a spiritual, emotional,physical, personal covenant you make with your special friend and Jah. If you're gonna get an apartment and give up some yonie, u might as well get it legit and gon' head get married. Marriage offers a stability that the live-in lover arrangement doesn't. The way i see it, if u live wit someone for fiftyleven years & don't get married, it seems like u wanna b like, i can leave whenever i want to....
..."I don't see no rings on these fingers/so i'm not gonna deal wit' your drama.............See we been shakin' up/since '93/I ain't gettin no younger/i need some guarentees....
that ain't gon' be ME singin that song, Syleena Johnson! IF yall been shakin 4 ten years, y ain't yall married?
& i want a big family, & can't see myself wit a bunch of kids & no glimmer on the 4th finger of my left hand.... :roll:
I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.^^^^^^^^^^Girl, I couldn't have said it better myself. Shackin' up is wrong and there is no TRUE commitment in that situation, cuz' someone could easily say, "We're not Married," "You're not my husband/wife." Also, what kind of example would that be??? Not a good one, I'll say that much.........
I just got to put this one out there....
Do you believe in Marriage Yes or No... and why or why not.
I just got to say that i don't because of the simple fact that i don't think that i have to prove to anyone that i love my "soulmate"... i think it's a wate of time and money.... i think that if you love someone, you can live together forever just like you were married... just without the whole wedding costing you a fortune...
that's just me but halla back with what you think about marriage :wink:
I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.
it's not only about the money... it's about time also... and the point... i just don't see the point of marriage or why bother to waste time with it... but if i believed in marriage (most of my beliefs i feel stongly about) then why go the cheap way... i'm not cheap about anything else that i believe in... so i'm not saying that it's only about the money... i just don't see the point and i probably never will... that's just how i feel about the whole thing... and if someone wants to bag on me about how i wanna have a "live in Boyfriend" that's fine... that's just how i choose to live my life.
if you can tell me the point or anyone else on here can tell me the point (something i just don't see) please fill me in on the big lost :? :|
I completely disagree with you. First I was raised that you dont live with someone unless yall are married. Personally, I just think that having a live in boyfriend and some kids isnt the most respectable thing and what kind of example is that for your kids. But thats just how I feel. And you say its a waste of money to get married but you can easily go to Justice of the Peace and and get married at court and that costs like nothing. I would know cause my parents did it. My mom didnt wanna waste her money on a wedding which is fine, but she wasnt gonna live with no man and he not be her husband. I want a husband and then a child....I dont want no live in boyfriend and he be my babby daddy....HELL NO. I personnally want a huge wedding cause thats just my own personal preference, but I undersatnd that some people feel its not worth the money which is cool. But I just think its a cop out to say that you dont wanna get married cause of the cost when u can easily get it done for free at the Court. If you just want a live in boyfriend then say that, but to say cause it costs too much is just Bullsh*t to me.
^^^^^^^^^^Girl, I couldn't have said it better myself. Shackin' up is wrong and there is no TRUE commitment in that situation, cuz' someone could easily say, "We're not Married," "You're not my husband/wife." Also, what kind of example would that be??? Not a good one, I'll say that much.........
you see situations with people about adultry and they're married... so whats a ring going to do? ... fashion... to brag to other people that you have someone and fool yourself that your other-half is "legit"... to that i would say love is about trust... and if you don't love your other-half (married or not)... there is no trust... so therefore what would you be with that person for :?: ... if you think that a ring is going to stop you other-half from doing someone else... well... what can i say :roll: ... if your other-half want to fool around with someone else (married or not) they are going to do it...
