Ok, i know you're like..."WTH???" lol, but listen up. I heard this interesting comparision by this preacher. We were having a group discussion about male/female relations and he compared women to spaghetti and men to waffles. Apparently, women are like spaghetti because when describing something, they can mention every lil nook & cranny of what happened and still manage to make it all intertwine and connect (like spaghetti). Then, men are like waffles because they seperate everything into compartments (like waffles) & keep it simple and to the point. Example: A date took place on one friday evening. Here's how the man would describe the date...
Man..."yeah dawg. I picked her up at 8. She looked fly yo. We went out to eat. Nice place. Saw a movie. It was cool. I took her home. Gave her lil kiss. Went home"
Here's the woman's interpretation..."Well girl. I decided to get in the shower at 6. I even used that new shower gel that u got me from bath & body works. It smells so good. Girl, after that i couldn't decide whether to wear my hair up or down. And u know i wanted to wear the black dress, but then i took another look at the red one, and i just new James would LOVE my legs in that. I decided to wear the black one tho cuz red makes me look fat. He pulled up to the house at 7:59. I heard his loud **** music from my bedroom. Speakin of which, he was playin the new Kanye. I love me some Kanye girl. He is so cute! James kinda looks like him too...etc. etc."
Do u think this is true? Have u ever witnessed or seen the difference in the way that men & women communicate? I know i have. When i ask a guy friend how his day was, he says "it was cool". And i'm left thinkin "ok...and...???". Becuz i know when i talk to one of my girlfriends, i'm gonna get her entire agenda...and THEN some! That's spaghetti for ya :wink:
I just try to summarize when I'm explaining stuff I guess. I don't think
people wanna hear all those senseless details. cool info though, I
never thought of that
this is true...
women are much better at communicating thier thoughts than men...
our brains are just wired differently that's all...
that's why if you go to a playground full of kindergarteners, the little girls will be in like groups of 3 talking to eachother about thier day and how fun it is to be playing, and the little boys will be by themselves playing with cars and airplanes making vroom noises...
it's a survival trait from back in the cave man days...
women had to be able to communicate well as they socialized eachother while picking berries n junk...somehow a talkative women was considered the most dominiant and somehow her basket ended up the fullest...
men have to have brains that are specifically designed to focus on one thing....
good for hunting...
and that's why men are usually better in math than women...
