Well, I was basically talking to this guy all school year. Everything was cool the summer before I went back to Hampton. We even said we'd take it to the next level when I came home for a break, but then things got weird. We'd argue all the time, but whenever I came back home (BTW: he goes to Georgia tech in Atlanta, so it was a LD thing) things were better again. Now when I came home back in May for the summer, things were okay...at least I thought they were. After we saw each other, two weeks go by and to make a long story short, he met some girl or whatever that he was introduced to by one of his roommates during those weeks. Now, me and him were in this pseudo relationship for almost a year, but a month after things end between us, he makes the girl his girlfriend!
It's been about two months since that all went down and I'm getting over it as each day goes by, but the hurt is still there. I was really good to that boy, even while I was ten hours away at Hampton. I feel like I wasted my time and that I am in love with someone who wants someone else. It hurts, but.....I dunno. I just feel stupid.
I just want someone I can truly vibe with and who will want to be with me and only me. I'm tired of getting hurt.
Anyone ever been in a situation like this or something similar? What are some of yall's advice?
dont worry about him, be la femme nikita!
sorry i havent been able to catch you on AIM, i got this job from 4:30 - 3 AM central time =-o so basically my time is spent either alseep or at the job lol
... i guess i could have sent this in a PM but errm i guess its too late for that lol
think that if you were with him, then he might be doing the exact same thing to some other girl... i know this is kind of random but whatever happened to ginuwine? this post just made me start thinking of the song "so different" and well...yea
lol reading eveybody else stories made me realize that im not the only 1 hurting. just the other day the luv of my life siad he was in luv with another gurl. it just so happen that a couple of months ago, that she jumped me with her sister while i was 3 months pregent with his child. but i guess everything happens 4 a reason. im proud 2 say that i would be attending asu in the fall, while the person that i thought i loved is on his way to a hopeless life
2 sum dis up **** aint Sh*t fukk em will the real men please stand up
They jumped u while u were pregnant??? R u serious??? That's trife, THEY are trife, and HE is trife. I would call him a dog but...at least dogs are loyal, which is more than i can say for half of the scandalous men that we call "dogs". Girl, u go ahead and do you. Focus on your education and improving your future. You deserve better
They jumped u while u were pregnant??? R u serious??? That's trife, THEY are trife, and HE is trife. I would call him a dog but...at least dogs are loyal, which is more than i can say for half of the scandalous men that we call "dogs". Girl, u go ahead and do you. Focus on your education and improving your future. You deserve better
Girl, I feel your pain. I have been in a situation similar to that. My senior year in high school I was going with a guy who I had met through a friend. We both seemed to really be feeling each other, however we lived an hour away. Although we were alittle distance, we decided to make it work. Later on in the relationship, he told me that he was going into the Airforce....I was sad, but I told him I would stay with him no matter what. He said the same thing and I thought he was sincere. A couple of weeks later, he tells me that he wanted to end everything because "it would hurt [him] too much if he couldn't see me on a regular basis, but [he] loved me with all [his] heart." Of course, I believed this all, however the truth was, he had gotten another girl, a friend of his, who was also going into the Airforce. I was so hurt after I found this out that I cried for weeks. I thought I loved him and I was sure he loved me, but I was proved wrong. I just knew I would never fiind anyone like him, but I actually found someone better. Who treats me right. So my advice to you, would be just to keep your head up. There are more fish in the sea and when the right guy comes along you will know. Good Lick and keep us updated!
*~fists in the air for my fellow Southern CALI chica!~*
Aint it great how GOD works?! Gettin rid of the OLD and unnecessary to make way for the NEW and improved!
:? HI YOU MOST LIKELY DON'T KNOW ME B*CAUSE I'M NEW BUT TO YOUR SITUATION I CAN RELATE (I'M LATOYA FROM THE HARBOR) I HAVE FRIENDS YOUNGER AND OLDER WHO ALWAYS HAVE GUY TROUBLE AND I TELL THEM THAT IF YOU LOOK AND LONG FOR YOU'LL NEVER RECIEVE A LOVE TRUE TO YOU, HIS LOVE FOR YOU, AND THE WORD'S HE SPEAK TO YOU. I BELIEVE EVERYBODY BEEN HURT AT LEAST ONCE BEFORE AND A L.D. RELATIONSHIP ARE THE WORST ONES BUT NEVER SAY YOU WASTE YOUR TIME B*CAUSE YOU LOVE, TRUST AND BELIEVED IN HIM AND THE RELATIONSHIP AND EVENTUALLY YOU'RE GOING TO MEET SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO DO THE SAME IN RETURN. I'M IN A L.D RELATIONSHIP AND IT DOES GET HARD JUST STAY OPEN AND HONEST TO THAT PERSON AND IF THAT'S WHAT YOU DID THATN JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND HEART OPEN. EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO A BLESSING!
GOD BLESS YA!
Dang...I thought i was the onlee one hurtin! FoR rEaL!! *starts eatin sum vanilla ice cream...and starts talkin wit my mouth full* IDUNNO EVEN know...maybe somethin's wrong wit me!! I messed around wit some guy that i've known for a while...and we've been real coo friends. But my mistake was when i messed around wit him. Afterwards he tells my gurl that he sees me as a sister!!! A SISTER!! WTF!? that was harsh. Then he tried to take it back and say that i was like his homie. I took that extra hard. It felt like i was in a downward spiral after that. :cry: :cry: But im tryin to bee coo now. I think i juss need a hug! *DEEP SIGH*
A wise person once sang: Im tired of my heart...bein broken...im tired of these tears fallin down my face. Im tired of this love...bein taken...for granted.....-Aaliyah!
Anyone ever been in a situation like this or something similar? What are some of yall's advice?
