lol, EJ...u got me all over the place. From busted chicks, to f*kk buddies, women just wanting thugs, light skinned/dark skinned...lawdy lawdy homie. I don't even know what to touch on :? .
One thing i can say is this, you can't get mad at a female for wanting shallow things (**** appeal & materialism), if the things that pull you are shallow as well (light skin & long black hair). To me, it's all superficial, just expressed in different ways. "WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD GURLS???"...well, they might have been one of those "bustdowns" or one of those ladies who weren't as light or who's hair wasn't as straight/black or who's figure wasn't as perfect, but you were too busy looking at the exterior, that u never took the time to consider if they had a decent spirit :wink: ...think about it...
By me thinking this....I think I have a color complex and have a mild of arrogance and stuck-up pickness....not ashamed to admit that....but there not many females with class to choose from....quote]
I don't think it's arrogance, or "stuck-up pickiness" as you call it, at all. There is nothing wrong wit having standard. Some types of people appeal to one person and some others to another. It's nice that you are looking for a person you can grow wit and not someone you can just hit and quit one time. Just wait that right LADY will come and when she does take hold and don't let go.
1st- Ask God to send you that special lady, but only if you're ready. Because if not, she'll blow your mind.
2nd- don't go looking. Things like this are supposed to fall into place. And when they do, thats when you pursue and go after her!!!!!!!!!
CAU BABY... 07!!!!!!!!!!
Yep! Said to say :cry:
Sadly there are not alot of girls in my area cause I live in a retired populated family base community....There little girls but none like big and dimes....while thinking all of this...I was thinking....Do I have a color complex??
I always want a nice light/carmel/ or mild dark skinned girl with nice jet black hair...that propotional size in all the right places...and who lives that wifey potenital life....
By me thinking this....I think I have a color complex and have a mild of arrogance and stuck-up pickness....not ashamed to admit that....but there not many females with class to choose from....
Because of this I'm confused...as Joe Said..."WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD GURLS".
What are you all's opinion on my thoughts???
umm ok i was feeling ya because of course ya have your tastes based on apperances ...and maybe you just werent attracted to them, like girls sometimes arent attracted to other guys because of their looks..... until i read on down...now i dont wanna assume nothing and correct me if im wrong....but how can you assume a girl has class based on where she was brought up in and where she lives....thats like saying paris hilton has class :roll:...you cant base class on outwardly appearances....its impossible!!!!...you may be right mostly on your stereotypes but i promise you will be wrong on more than one occassion..and WTF IS THE WIFEY POTENTIAL LIFE??...ok lemme stop before i say something i shouldnt....cause i have been judged plenty on coming from a poor background in the rural south and just because i dont happen to live in a huge house with a car in a big city doesnt mean that a woman who does has more "wifey potential" and class than me...thats plain ludicrous.....and i dont agree with whoever said you had a "standard" cause i call it flat out discrimination :arrow: ...and look beyond the box in your physical description of what you want besides the caramel/light/slightly dark black girl with jet black hair
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CAU BABY... 07!!!!!!!!!!
