Do you cheat on your girl/man? If so, what measures have you went through in order to keep your significant other from finding out? What is your overall view on cheating?
I dont cheat, and I feel like if you gotta cheat, why waste your time? Cheaters are either greedy, or not satisfied. Men used to be the dominant force when it came to cheating on the women, but since it's so difficult to satisfy a woman, (and since women can sometimes be greedy), women are being accused of cheating more than ever. I would like for everyone (especially the women) to get involved in this one (which is why this post is in the Yard).
No.... I'm not cheating on my significant other, but I have cheated on past boyfriends and it wasn't hard to keep them from finding out.
I just made sure that the person that I cheated with didn't even know of my boyfriend, they never had my home phone number, I would never be seen out in public with them somewhere that my boyfriend might be, and I never told any of my friends..... so that they wouldn't slip up and say something.
I don't cheat anymore though cause now I figure....what's the point. If the relationship is so bad that you feel a need to cheat, then just end it.
No need in causing more emotional damage to the person than you have to.
Well, since I don't really have one (I have a girl, but we're not labeled, so we can "see" other folk for the time being), I don't cheat.
But, I see cheating now from a very empathic standpoint. I hated when it happened to me (my first love cheated on me with my older brother), so why put someone else through that emotional horror?
But, I see cheating now from a very empathic standpoint. I hated when it happened to me (my first love cheated on me with my older brother), so why put someone else through that emotional horror?
Damn.....that was terrible what she did and with your own brother. :cry:
She must have traumatized you for life huhh???
But, I see cheating now from a very empathic standpoint. I hated it when it happened to me (my first love cheated on me with my older brother), so why put someone else through that emotional horror?
Damn.....that was terrible what she did and with your own brother. :cry:
She must have traumatized you for life huhh???
Not for life...but it did set a brotha back for a year or two... :cry:
Well, since I don't really have one (I have a girl, but we're not labeled, so we can "see" other folk for the time being), I don't cheat.
But, I see cheating now from a very empathic standpoint. I hated when it happened to me (my first love cheated on me with my older brother), so why put someone else through that emotional horror?
This is off topic but do you think its liberating to not "label" the relationship??? And I wont get started on the seeing other people part.
Have i cheated before.. no becuase i've seen how it ruins a person and the relationship. ive had friends that have been on all sides of it.... the cheater... the person being cheated on and the person that the cheater is with... and none of those people are happy while its going on and after whether it comes out or not
No...If I have to cheat on you that means I'm not happy bein wit you, so I'm gonna just let you go and move on...PLUS, cheating causes too much unwanted and unnecessary DRAMA that I just don't need. I don't like to hurt people and I don't want them to hurt me. The worst way a person I'm wit can hurt me is to cheat. That's disrespectful to me and it makes me feel like such an idiot considering the time I've wasted wit you when I could have been with someone else. Treat others how you want to be treated! Think about it!
