I go'n through read'n on "Would you let her keep your last name??" and I thought why should it even come to that? I think nowadays ppl are too quick to divorce. We take those vows, you let me get all dressed up and invite all our family and friends to witness you best believe we together FOREVER!! Personally, divorce would be the last resort, the only reson I would divorce is if he was directly or indirectly (it doesn't matter which) hustring my kids...other than that I would suggest he Stick It Out!!! :!:
Okay, this is what i think, if a couple has been married for, let's say, 10 years, and all of a sudden he/she finds out that there signifcant other had an affair, then i think that if they are willing to work it out, they should do it, counseling, etc.. BUT, if you all have been married for like a year and your significant other cheats, then u need to let his/her **** go. that's just a peep show of what's to come for the next several years
I once had a friend say... "Men want a woman that is loyal, basically he knows his woman has his back and women want a man that is faithful, she wants to be sure that her man won't cheat on her."
Such true words. And I heard this preacher say,.... "when it comes to finding that true love Men want to be that woman's first and women want to be that man's last." SMH...so true. 8)
:arrow: Older in a marriage...he really loves you ...just decided to try something new...chances are he won't do it again.
I think this is what the Jet article said...it was about a month old.
"try something new"???!!!! I wish a nicca would!!! He had better try runnin cuz ain't no way in hell he gon get away w/ that...esp not w/ that excuse....humph!! :roll:
And I heard this preacher say,.... "when it comes to finding that true love Men want to be that woman's first and women want to be that man's last." SMH...so true. 8) 
