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54 replies · 17781 views · Started by BabyGyrl · Jul 2004
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Are any of you still friends with the guy you gave your virginity to? My friends have all told me that they hate the guy they lost it to now. As for me....it's hard to turn love into hate....it doesn't mean it cant be done, especially with all the things that are going on between me and him now, but still..... Anyways, is that person still in your life?
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Poody · Jul 2004
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yep we still cool. we actually like best friends. our mama/s best friends too. they better friends than me and him are. *thinks about it* naaahh, me and him much cooler.
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· Jul 2004
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me and him still talk. we good friends now. i dont regret anything
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· Jul 2004
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Slim GoodyN757 wrote:
the person i lost my virginity to is no longer a part of my life and we are not on speaking terms. I regret losing it to him but then I also am glad that i have learned from my mistake which has made me a smarter person.
Cosigns.. I hate that ****... i dont know what i was thinkin...
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· Jul 2004
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Nope....and dont think i will ever talk to him ever again... Last time we talked-it ended on bad terms and he showed me that he really was triflin.....i do regret that i did anything with him in the first place....but u live and u learn. :roll:
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Blutifully Human · Jul 2004
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Nope. Haven't done "IT" yet. The "plan" is hold out for my hubby/soulmate/one, so hopefully i won't be comin back to this thread anytime soon sayin "I don't know where that damn negro is and i haven't talked to him in years! I hate him :evil: !".Whoever takes my virtue isn't going ANYWHERE. He's stuck for LIFE like Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence. I ain't playin :!: :lol:
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In Rod We Trust · Jul 2004
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KenYaFeelMe? wrote:
Nope. Haven't done "IT" yet. The "plan" is hold out for my hubby/soulmate/one, so hopefully i won't be comin back to this thread anytime soon sayin "I don't know where that damn negro is and i haven't talked to him in years! I hate him :evil: !".Whoever takes my virtue isn't going ANYWHERE. He's stuck for LIFE like Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence. I ain't playin :!: :lol:
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MzHowardU07 · Aug 2004
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The guy that I lost my virginity to is still in my life. As a matter of fact we are closer now than ever before. Of course, I still have love for him and he has the same for me, but we are not ready to be with each other. It's hard to explain, but that is how it is.
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Youngtarget · Aug 2004
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:cry: Well me and my first are no longer on good terms. :cry: we liked eachother since we were like 11, so we've been through just about everything but he could not handle the fact that I went off to college. Its just a huge mess between us, I wish things were like they use to be.
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Blutifully Human · Aug 2004
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jstblz99 wrote:
KenYaFeelMe? wrote:
Nope. Haven't done "IT" yet. The "plan" is hold out for my hubby/soulmate/one, so hopefully i won't be comin back to this thread anytime soon sayin "I don't know where that damn negro is and i haven't talked to him in years! I hate him :evil: !".Whoever takes my virtue isn't going ANYWHERE. He's stuck for LIFE like Eddie Murphy and Martin Lawrence. I ain't playin :!: :lol:
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I see from the many message boards that we are very likeminded. I see, great minds think alike :wink:
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· Aug 2004
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So often I block out my "first" and refer to my second as such. My first was a one time thing that I don't regret, but i know it shouldn't have happened if that makes since. We were together for what seemed like a long time, but whatever...now my second who i refer to as my 1st more often was my first love. I crushed over this guy from the age of 9 when I first saw him until I was 14 when we became a couple. We dated for the majority of my high school career...attempted to date a lil while I was in college...but things fizzled. All in all I still and will always love the guy, and vice versa.
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