If you can't do it around him/her (your mate) without them getting mad, its cheating.
The worst is emotional cheating...
My G-d brother ended up in a onesided emotional relationship with a girl who had a man she was fuccing.
They had classes together and ol' girl would talk to my G-d brother all the time about ish--including her relationship. The kicker was my G-d brother wasn't feeling this girl like she was feeling him and thought they were just friends. They continued talking about dumb ish at school and on the phone...BUT when...
he started dating someone. Ol' girl from his class who had a MAN that she was FUCCING found out--she turned into that chick from fatal attraction and caused a scene at my G-d brother's school. Her boyfriend and my G-d brother were like WTF...
Okay...
1. All of these lines should be drawn up at the beginning of the relationship
2. In my book, everything is cheatin except going out and lap dances....that Sh*t is iffy...I mean...it's a strip club for one...what do u expect...and going out is not cheatin if you tell ya man bout it...just like he told me...and just like I'ma tell him when I get to Jackson
^^^I agree. Y'alls views on cheating should be handled from the start. But now with talking, there are a completely diff. set of stuff because it just depends on how y'all feel about ea. other & y'alls views.
I gotta agree witcha on that one ****... I might even admit to doin that unknowingly.. But I think thas kuz **** think chivalry is ****.. If i'm witcha... u get all of me, imma treat u like u should b treated.. even if i jus consider u a friend, imma let u in, n u my stickman/stickgurl till u do sumn to make me feel anotha way. I mean if ya girl wants to treated like a "princess" n u treat her like one of tha boys, m i wrong for her bein attracted to me b/c i treat her like a woman? Wooo tha lives we lead.. lol