dating YOUNGER guys...
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Started by La
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Aug 2004
DO yall mind dating a guy that is younger than you, or it doesnt matter???
Me...I prefer someone who is older. I dont really feel comfortable dating a guy that is younger than me. If we were born the same year but my birthday comes first I dont mind...But I just feel uncomfortable with the idea of dating someone who is more than a year younger than me...I mean, if he is the love of my life and younger than me I of course aint gonna let him go over that. Thats petty. But right now in my life I couldnt see myself dating a guy younger than me, cause as we know...men mature slower than women, and I just dont think we would be on the same level...but maybe when I get into my twenties and Im interested in a man in his twenties younger than me, I may be more willing to pursue it then. But I will always prefer a man older than me.
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They say that guys immature slower than females. That's why a lot of us go to older men and the reason why a lot of older women/younger men relationships don't work out.
whos that girl who dated like the 40 year old stripper? :lol:
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I don't think age should matter..
Sure there are a lot of immature 18 year olds..but there are a lot of immature 25-30 year olds..
Crossing someone off the list because they are 2-3 years from the age that you prefer without really knowing them isn't fair..
^^^tru, but at the same time ur more likely to run into that young-minded mentality the closer they r to 18 or so in my experience the ones that were closer to my age (same yr or just a lil tiny bit older) and I attempted to talk to this guy who was close in age, but it was something I often thought about…the same goes for guys who r shorter than I am, but hey there is always that 1 exception to the rule so u never kno
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I was ALWAYS against dating younger guys until one in particular came me way when I needed attention the most. He was so sweet and caring and always wanted to make me happy. I've noticed that sometimes the young ones will appreciate us a lil more b/c they don't wanna lose that. 
But like i said...that was only ONE younger guy and I'm back to the older and wiser end of the spectrum. I just turned 20 and my "guy friend" with be 25 in a couple months....he seems more like 24 going on 35 though. Oh well...that's how I like 'em! 
But like i said...that was only ONE younger guy and I'm back to the older and wiser end of the spectrum. I just turned 20 and my "guy friend" with be 25 in a couple months....he seems more like 24 going on 35 though. Oh well...that's how I like 'em!
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All of my BFs have been younger than me..................... by a few days or a couple months.
I just don't see me wanting to talk to someone 25+......I just feel like a) he's a loser because he can't find someone his own age b) I still have some growing up to do or c) I'm not trying to have some dude act like he's my daddy or d) he has bad intentions...I mean seriously what does a guy his age look like introducing me to his friends and family...either there's another older woman in the picture or he's just not ready to settle and tryin to live beyond his years.
I mean yeah older guys probably have more money than younger guys blah blah blah...but I just feel comfy with somebody who is no more than 3 years older than me. Younger than me...definitely not...he would have to be one hell of a dude.
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C Diddy wrote:All of my BFs have been younger than me..................... by a few days or a couple months. I just don't see me wanting to talk to someone 25+......I just feel like a) he's a loser because he can't find someone his own age b) I still have some growing up to do or c) I'm not trying to have some dude act like he's my daddy or d) he has bad intentions...I mean seriously what does a guy his age look like introducing me to his friends and family...either there's another older woman in the picture or he's just not ready to settle and tryin to live beyond his years. I mean yeah older guys probably have more money than younger guys blah blah blah...but I just feel comfy with somebody who is no more than 3 years older than me. Younger than me...definitely not...he would have to be one hell of a dude.
