I can't date a softeeeee! Been there and it was NOT cool at all :| He was on the sensitive/momma's boy type of thang and at first i thought it was cute,but then it got serious
If I want a someone who's more on the sensitive side, I'll go to my girl Jasmine :twisted: (was that too much info?)
what yall think? Would u like a dude who,when things go wrong, runs like a lil **** :lol:
or
when you're with him, You feel like the woman and HE's the MAN? 8)
No, we are saying that we want someone who is not afraid to stand up for himself and for his woman... someone who is not controlling, but able to be aggressive if needed. Someone who can understand the true meaning of being a real man... and it is intrinsic, not learned. Usually these men have had a strong paternal upbringing, and the men in their family acted as role models. We are not looking for a rough neck, necessarily (or at least I'm not)... just someone who does not allow others to overstep their boundaries when dealing with him, and, specifically in this case, his woman. It's a respect thing... if you allow others to disrespect you, then what kind of man are you? Petty disrespect from ignorant people can be ignored... it's the major stuff that we are talking about. For instance, someone mentioned ****. If something happens to your girl, and you basically did nothing about it, what kind of a man are you? That's what we're saying. It's that masculinity that attracts me... that vulnerable side that needs to be guarded and protected... and I would feel more secure with a man who understands my needs, and acts accordingly.
Very well said. I absolutely cosign and endorse this response.
if they are say like "screaming like a girl on a universal studios roller coaster" its kinda cute to me lol...but if he's unmasculine like if some guy hits me or calls me a name or something and he doesnt do anything or is scared then that isnt cute at all
shhhhiiiiiiii....the guy hit you or called you a name he didnt do nothing to me 8) :arrow:
To me...it's not about knockin somebody out or gettin buck for some petty reason. I don't think **** is a true expression of your manhood. Sometimes being a MAN is knowing when to choose your battles and being strong enough to walk away from a situation. Shoot, i wouldn't want someone TOO hard, how the hell am i supposed to talk to somebody like that? I'd be scared my damn self. If u get buck wit everybody else, who's to say oneday u won't snap and lose it on me????
To go back to Rosie's original post, i think being "sensitive" is only cute to a certain degree. If u cry during a movie, or cry becuz we have to seperate for a long period of time...i won't look at u like a punk. In my opinion, there is nothing more endearing than a man who can shed a tear. Shows he's HUMAN. REAL MEN should be able to express their emotions without fearing the opinions of others. However, bowing down everytime things get hard, not taking care of your responsibilities, gettin your feelings hurt everytime u don't get your way, or actually WHINING becuz you aren't happy with sumthin...NOT cute. That's when i wanna call u a "PUNK BIOTCH".
Yeah Ima need for my guy not to be a lil b*tch, but I dont mind a momma's boy to AN EXTENT...if he needs to go to his momma about EVERYTHING then we got problems. But if he is just one of those dudes who loves their momma and would do anything for her, etc, type guy then thats great. Cause I know he will do me the same way if we ever got to the point of considering marriage.* ooh, thats gives me a thread idea. Off to the fellas room I go *
but i mean i dont think they understand how it is, case in point, John Q, ol' dude was trying, but oh no, his wife had to snap and scream at the n**** on the phone, and really you can only take the whining to the point, they may not admit it, but they want a n**** with a lot of patience with a long fuse, and they like to light the fuse along the way until its shorter and shorter, and then they want to sit back and watch you snap, and that makes them have even more feelings for you, basically what i'm saying is they want to take care of you, so if there is nothing wrong, they will make something wrong with you so they can take care of you
^^^:lol: :lol: :lol: . Uhhhh....sure thing Ekow...u have us all figured out there.
Why would i wanna make a dude stressed? If you're stressed, then i'm stressed, and what good is it havin to stressed folks all down each others back?
No, we are saying that we want someone who is not afraid to stand up for himself and for his woman... someone who is not controlling, but able to be aggressive if needed. Someone who can understand the true meaning of being a real man... and it is intrinsic, not learned. Usually these men have had a strong paternal upbringing, and the men in their family acted as role models. We are not looking for a rough neck, necessarily (or at least I'm not)... just someone who does not allow others to overstep their boundaries when dealing with him, and, specifically in this case, his woman. It's a respect thing... if you allow others to disrespect you, then what kind of man are you? Petty disrespect from ignorant people can be ignored... it's the major stuff that we are talking about. For instance, someone mentioned ****. If something happens to your girl, and you basically did nothing about it, what kind of a man are you? That's what we're saying. It's that masculinity that attracts me... that vulnerable side that needs to be guarded and protected... and I would feel more secure with a man who understands my needs, and acts accordingly.
If I want a someone who's more on the sensitive side, I'll go to my girl Jasmine :twisted: (was that too much info?)
what yall think? Would u like a dude who,when things go wrong, runs like a lil **** :lol:
or
when you're with him, You feel like the woman and HE's the MAN? 8) 
