GROW SOME BALLS DERN IT!
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Started by RosieKisses
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Aug 2004
RosieKisses
QUEENS, NY
I can't date a softeeeee! Been there and it was NOT cool at all :| He was on the sensitive/momma's boy type of thang and at first i thought it was cute,but then it got serious 
If I want a someone who's more on the sensitive side, I'll go to my girl Jasmine :twisted: (was that too much info?)
what yall think? Would u like a dude who,when things go wrong, runs like a lil **** :lol:
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when you're with him, You feel like the woman and HE's the MAN? 8)
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HamptonBeauty_08 wrote:No, we are saying that we want someone who is not afraid to stand up for himself and for his woman... someone who is not controlling, but able to be aggressive if needed. Someone who can understand the true meaning of being a real man... and it is intrinsic, not learned. Usually these men have had a strong paternal upbringing, and the men in their family acted as role models. We are not looking for a rough neck, necessarily (or at least I'm not)... just someone who does not allow others to overstep their boundaries when dealing with him, and, specifically in this case, his woman. It's a respect thing... if you allow others to disrespect you, then what kind of man are you? Petty disrespect from ignorant people can be ignored... it's the major stuff that we are talking about. For instance, someone mentioned ****. If something happens to your girl, and you basically did nothing about it, what kind of a man are you? That's what we're saying. It's that masculinity that attracts me... that vulnerable side that needs to be guarded and protected... and I would feel more secure with a man who understands my needs, and acts accordingly.
Very well said. I absolutely cosign and endorse this response.
