This is to my REAL MEN
If/when you become fathers PLEASE take care of your kids..Even if you slip up and have a kid with your girlfriend and she becomes your baby momma,and then ya cant stand her! (sorry) Take care of your lil ones...ESPECIALLY those who grew up without a father. You would understand the pain of having a DEADBEAT DADDY who doesnt care for you,tells you he's gonna take you here and there and never shows up...I'VE been there and still am there! my father does more for my brothers and ignores moi.....
And I see history repeats itself...My babydaddy doesnt care for HIS daughter and I dont want her growing up with hate for the dumb **** but ya know...
So anyway, that's all i got to say...DONT EVER SAY I AINT TELL YALL NOTHING :wink: :lol:
This is a great message that many need to take into great consideration and I am glad u put it up..but i also want to insert a lil tidbit...the men need to definitely step up and take the responsibility for their children but so do the women because their are many women who either abandon their children our doin't support...i know that for a fact..i am a product of it...but much love to ya, keep doing your thang, and your daughter is blessed to have a mother like you-1LUV
Good message, I now have a family, My wife and my 13 month daughter. I all tell my parnters this one thing though, " Every woman that you sleep with has a chance of being a part of your life for the rest of your life [ie baby momma], whether you want her there or not. So marinate on that one for a minute.
This is for the record ladies. A real man will not blame his ignant **** father for him being sorry or for not taking care of his own kids. Also, I am tired of fellas talking about how their life was so bad because their father was not there. f**k him feed him fish. The only thing I got from my father was my name and a coloring book for my 16th birthday. I feel that it takes credit away from all the single moms who raised college educated or otherwise successful kids when someone yells i wish my dad was there. My mom was my dad and mom and she was all I needed. It might be a good thing that he wasn't there... at least his lying, cheating, criminal minded **** wasn't there to badly influence me. When ever you feel like you wanna blast away at a deadbeat dad, use the energy in a positive way and call your moms and tell here you love her. Peace out.
that was soo true...alot of people feel the need to blame the fact that their fathers werent in their lives on why they are the way they are.... as a child I always looked at my father and learned from what he did to my mother and knew that's not how i want to be...my brothers did the same...you're better off learning from others' faults instead of taking them and doing the samething...
This may be a great message, but this is a subject that so many males have heard over and over and over again. Sorry, but I just believe that males will do what they want and nothing anyone can really say to change their mind...
I really do feel u on this one. My nephew's father isnt around. He comes ober on christmas, and thats only because its his son's birthday. Other than that he doesnt see him. It really pisses me off because me nephew and I are very close and it hurts me deeply to see him hurting. I've personally asked his dad to not come around anymore, but he still does. My nephews growin up now and he's starting to realize whats going down. He's slowly startin to hate his father. So fellas, this is what happens when u abandon yo seed. The tend to hate u.
THE PROBLEM IS IT TOO MANY BABY MOMMAS AND BABY FATHERS NOT ENOUGH HUSBANDS AND WIFES WE NEED STRONGER MARRIAGES SOME BROTHAZ NEED TO GET IT TOGETHER TAKE CARE OF REPSONSIBILITY YOU WASNT HOLDING BACK MAKING THAT BABY U NEED TO HELP TAKE CARE OF IT NOT JUST BY BUYING THE BABY A WHOLE BUNCH OF ****NIETHA I DONT HAVE NO KIDS BUT I APPLAUD ALL THE MOTHERS OUT THERE DOING THERE THING AND STILL GOING TO SCHOOL.
My Cousin Jasi she has a baby boy and her baby father is forever buying him crap and the baby spends more time with his mother than him thats crazy it takes two to raise a baby in my opinion though there are some mothers who hold it down on the single hand those women who are brave and the **** donors cowards it sad to me. Men need to take their place and step up they game not all men the ones that dont do their job. being there physically, financialy, and socially in the babies lives. If more men could step up be fathers to their children al ot of our youth wouldnt be like they are in the negative aspects.
BUt we cant blame the guys for everything sometimes its those no good mothers out there who sleep with soom any men they dont know who the baby's father even is so its a matter of responsibility from both partners u made that bed now they got to lay in it.
