How Do You Become the Male Medium?

Whoever said being natural was the way to go, *thumbs up*. In a general sense women want security, however that looks. Whether it be money or actual physical security they must have it (It ranks up there, though some women wont admit it). Being **** and being strong are very different, and if you dont have a backbone then she'll probably Break you before anything serious happens anyways. A backbone is Not the equivalent to hitting your girl - it is, however, showing integrity in everything you do. You dont have to be cut-diesel and beat up every guy who looks in your girls direction, but do what you can to make sure that shes taken care of (because she takes care of you, in more ways than one) and the rest will fall into place. I know what youre speaking on though, and all I can say is...man, theres bound to be a girl that accepts you for who you are and will love your dirty drawls. Only you can f*ck that up. :arrow: