LET ME ASK THE SISTAS A QUESTION!!

Ok....here's the scenario.... You've been with Johnathan for a long **** time...he's like the perfect man in your eyes...he treats you like a queen...you love him with your whole heart...and you would do anything and everything for him... Lets say...one day...he decides to leave you...just out of the blue... Johnathan: baby...this isn't working out...I'm sorry...but we're breaking up.... you are completely blown away...you dont understand...everything was going perfect... then you find out...the brotha left you for a big girl (full bodied woman) How would you feel?? Be Honest....

Just to be honest, if he left me for a girl he was cheating on my with, then yes she would be every name I could think of. But after the initial shock I'd be okay. Now on the other hand if he left and then got with her, then I wouldn't care I'd be like whateva. In your case he was your friend while they were together so she might think that he was cheating with you while they were together. You have to look at the situation from both sides to analyze it. But 4real by now she should just realize its over and to move on because there's always someone out there who's better.

well...we weren't friends...i mean i knew her...and she knew me...but that was it...i knew she was in love with him...and yeah i did care...thats why me and him never got closer than friends b/c i knew that ....

i would be upset but i would be like do what you do maybe she's doing something that i'm not

Damn that is fukked up. That sounds so immature. If you were ready for a commitment, then why get into a relationship where strong feelings are involved? To be honest, I"d have to cut him and the bytch he fukkin.

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