Ok, i know the interracial relationships thing has been done a thousand times...but i wanna focus on the aspect of white males with black females cuz everything ive seen is vice versa. ...plus theres fresh ppl with fresh opinions. Would yall date a white guy? what qualities would a white guy have to possess to make u attracted to him? would u be nervous to walk around campus with him, be seen kissin him? or have some of yall totally ruled out talkin to white dudes? me bein one myself...im jus kinda curious what to expect round campus
I have dated white guys and would do it again. . .it's just hard to find the type of white guy that I'm looking for LOL. But yeah if you like white boys, don't be embarrassed or anything cuz there is nothing wrong with it. Just be prepared for the comments that your fellow Black people are going to throw @ u. . .friends AND family :roll:
Hmm, I see it this way, if you have a connection with someone their skin color doesn't matter. Yes, I simply ADORE my brothas, and I haven't dated any white guys yet, but I can't say I wouldn't.
shoo...if you look good, you look good. I mean, if you a fine white boy, and theres a not so fine black guy, I wouldn't go wit the black dude just cuz he's black. I swear i would take Johnny Depp over Jay Z anyday....
But don't get me wrong....i LOVE black men...it's just sumthin bout em...
To the second part of your question....if there's a girl that's ashamed to walk around wit u on campus, then, in my eyes, they're hella childish. Y'all are in college. Grow up and stop caring bout what people think of you. If you happy, and ain't hurtin nobody, then it's all good. Personally, there ain't no shame in my game, and if i wanna mack all up on you in the middle of the quad, then got damnit that's what imma do! lol
Something funny happened to me yesterday. I was at Sports Authority getting out of my car to go in the store, and saw a Black woman and her White boyfriend walking back to their car. As soon as she saw me get out of my car, she started walking behind him like she was ashamed to be seen with him. As a matter of fact, she went to the trouble of walking over to another car as if to give the appearance that they didn't come there together. I recognized immediately what she was trying to do.
This was really sad... not that she was with a White man, but rather that she was so self-conscious about it that she couldn't bear to be seen with a man that she supposedly cares about.
My point is, whatever you choose to do, do it with your head held high. Too many people are so concerned about what everyone else is going to say that they forget about what they really want. So many people are hung up on whether their man / woman is attractive enough, rich enough, succesful enough, stylish enough for their friends & family rather than for them.
Neither your friends, family, or the public go home with them every night. You do, so whose opinion really matters? Holla!
i don't discriminate. If we have a connection, it doesn't matter if u are white, black, blue, or purple. If i'm with you, i'm with you totally. What others are thinking or saying isn't even a factor.
I don't know if the chances are too high of me finding a white guy that i can really REALLY connect with tho. Mainly becuz i'm so pro-black this and black love that. From my struggles, to the music i listen to, to the way i wear my hair, to my style of dress, to even the way i worship (...which is nothin quiet)...everything is just pure blackness. If a a white man can get down with that....God bless em :lol:
even though i have never dated a white guy, its a long running "joke" with my mom that im going to marry a white guy. i mean i love guys period...black,mexican,italian, puerto rican, and white. i've never been attracted to an asian tho. but if ur feeling a white dude, dont be ashamed. how would you feel if he was hesistant to walk on his campus with you?? you would be having second thoughts about being with him. i say if he's fine,honest,loyal,respectful,intelligent and funny...GO FOR IT CHICA!
JUST MAKE SURE HE AINT NO BARBERSHOP TYPE WHITE BOY
cuz that was just crazy...IMO he tried tooooo hard
YES! You WILL NOT spot me with one of those.....in fact....i don't think anyone will ever see me dating a white guy. I'm not discriminating, i just like to keep it dark and lovely....
I think some white guys are cute... like that guy Chad Michael Murray (from that Cinderall story movie with hilary duff). But I have never in my life been attracted to a white guy.
