Ladies, we're gettin' smarter nowadays, we ain't gonna fall for the old okiedoke anymore.
This is based on BrandedBison's post about the girl turning him into a friend. Alot of times you just aren't feeling a guy for WHATEVA reason, and instead of telling him the truth you decide to give him these "polite" blowoffs.
Fellas, if a girl that you are interested in gives you any of these excuses, she's lying:
1. "I value our friendship so much that I don't want to risk doing anything that would ruin it."
2. "I just got out of a relationshp and I'm trying to focus on myself for right now."
3. "My life is so busy that I don't have time for a relationship right now."
4. "Yer like a brother to me, I would feel akward by dating you."
5. "Yer too good for me, you deserve somebody better"
Fellas if you hear any of these excuses; STOP ....DROP....AND ROLL DA FUKK OUT THE ROOM. Cuz if you stay you are going to turn into her "girlfriend" and will lose any and all chances of being anything MORE than "Just a Friend"
Fellas, if a girl that you are interested in gives you any of these excuses, she's lying:
2. "I just got out of a relationship and I'm trying to focus on myself for right now."
3. "My life is so busy that I don't have time for a relationship right now."
4. "Yer like a brother to me, I would feel akward by dating you."
These are not lies. I feel this way about people right now. I did just get out of talking to someone and right now I just want some time to myself to just have fun and date without being tied down. .
I'm not talkin' about "Date and have fuN" I'm talkin' about folx who use that excuse to people that they have NOOOOO romantic feelings for at all. You can date all the guys you want, but would you "date" someone who you aren't feelilng?
I'm saying why can't women just be straightforward with it? If a dude is gonna spend time talking and getting to know u better, and u don't want anything more than a friendship, why don't y'all just say that in the 1st place?
I'm saying why can't women just be straightforward with it? If a dude is gonna spend time talking and getting to know u better, and u don't want anything more than a friendship, why don't y'all just say that in the 1st place?
cuz some men like to act like little **** when we say that........
NEXT............ :arrow:
That's where everyone's screwing up. If you pay attention to the MESSAGE, not the words, things start making a lot more sense.
If a girl tells you one of those things, she is sending you a message. Just like if we say "we'll call you sometime", the implied message is that sometime won't be anytime soon.
Dudes look at friends differently. We don't really need or want female friends, because we can get the same benefits from our boys (someone to chill with & talk to) without the drama. So if a dude agrees to be friends with a female, it's probably because he wants another crack at her and is waiting for his chance.
If a female says she wants to be friends, it might be legit. But more than likely her message is saying your chances are slim. But some people are in denial, and believe what they want to. Holla!
I'm saying why can't women just be straightforward with it? If a dude is gonna spend time talking and getting to know u better, and u don't want anything more than a friendship, why don't y'all just say that in the 1st place?
::gets out her baby powder::
Why can't WOMEN just be straightfoward??!?!?
I am not about to turn this into a men suck/women suck thing...but gatdammit...
I haven't met a man yet without an agenda. Matter of fact...I have never in MY LIFE, met a group of people, who DON'T know what the fucc they want. Screaming one minute "Where da hoes at" and the second minute "Maan, I just need me a girl I can wife up". Find that wifey type..."Naaw man, I just don't need to locked down like that, right now ain't the right time sweetheart". WHAT IN THE FUCC? DO YOU THINK WE ARE STUPID? Men & game. Game right. Tricks and fancy words ya'll use to get a woman to let her guard down, and don't mean a bit a ****of it..."Ohh baby, you've all that I've got, You the kind of girl **** settle down with, baby..don't ever leave me." I outta get to chopping off shyt.
OK...I'm mad...
::breathes::wooo-sah
I appologize the males. I'm just a bit sens-e-tive right now...
I'm saying why can't women just be straightforward with it? If a dude is gonna spend time talking and getting to know u better, and u don't want anything more than a friendship, why don't y'all just say that in the 1st place?
cuz some men like to act like little **** when we say that........
NEXT............ :arrow:
I'm not trying to make anyone upset in here, but for the few men that are actually sincere with their words its hard when gurls put up a front and say things they don't really mean. You don't deserve to be treated the way y'all do by those dudes who playing tricks on you, and some of us don't deserve for tricks to be played on.
