Ok every female has a list of desirable qualties that she wants in a man and qualities that she will not accept in a man. So whats on your list ladies
Heres a few of mine
:arrow: Not a smoker
:arrow: Not a heavy drinker
:arrow: Has to show some type of effort of furthering his education
:arrow: No one over 21 livin with your mom ( Hey :wink: )
:arrow: No kids
I can't say what I do and don't want because it really varies
I ALWAYS like guys who are
FUNNY
TALENTED in some sort of way
ONE WHO HOLDS MY INTEREST...I get bored easily
If he has kids...that is cool....
If he drinks...just know when and when not to
If he smokes...do that more so on your own time
If he lives with his folks...act responsible and not just DEPEND on them
I seriously don't surround myself with negative people....so you need to be doing something with yourself...school or a job....have some sort of goal....know somewhat what you want out of life....LOOKS really don't matter....
:arrow: cant be a smoker
:arrow: has to be a Christian
:arrow: has to be open minded
:arrow: has to have some goals...and make an effort to achieve those goals
:arrow: has to be tall...im to short to have a short man...and i dont want to curst my kids with my height :?
:arrow: has to be able to make me smile
:arrow: easy to talk to ....and listens~communication is VERY important
:arrow: has to be respectful...respect me, his self, and others
...ill be back when i think of somethin else :arrow:
Well I have already found my ideal man but these are characteristics that he has and I wanted before I met him
:arrow: Attractive ~ I am not talkin drop-**** gorgeous...just attractive to me
:arrow: Responsible ~ be a man and take care of what is yours that includes your life
:arrow: God-fearing ~ Through the Lord all things are possible
:arrow: Respectful ~ If you can't give me the respect I give ya...ya gotta go
:arrow: Ambitious ~ Someone who has goals and ambitions in life
:arrow: Non-smoker ~ thats a big no-no
:arrow: Non-drinker ~ I am not a drinker but i respect you if its your choice just be responsible
:arrow: Funny
:arrow: Intelligent ~ not jusy book sense but common sense and street smarts
:arrow: No thugs ~ Big No-No...not into the whole bad boy thing
:arrow: A Gentleman ~ You don't have to open every door for me but treat me as a woman should be treated and I'll do the same for you
:arrow: There is more but those are ones that came to my head quickly
no children ( not ready to be anything like a step mom)
smoking is okay but dont do it everyday or every other day
light drinker
has goals and is trying to accomplish them
knows how to approach situations
a gentleman in the public but in private an intamate freak
nice dresser
supportive
comforting
Has to have God in his life
Funny
Chill and laid back (to even out my goofiness)
Good communicator
Nice dresser
TALL!!!!
Someone who is juss a tru down ta earth type of brotha.
Someone i can take home to my pops...and pops wont have ta get tha shot gun out to scare him a lil bit! LOL!!!!
Affectionate
Someone who'll love me for me...flaws and all!!
NO-NO's
KIDS...tried to do it once...NEVER AGAIN! Im too young for that crap
Smoker...its just nasty. kick tha habit
A ****! I quite personally cant deal wit dumb actin **** people. Its one thing to get ****...but dont act soo stupid that it makes me look at ya differently.
Likes:
God Fearing
Facial Hair
Caramel to Dark Chocolate Skin
Accents (Deep Southern or Deep Eastern)
Dresses nice
Nice teeth
Golds(sometimes)
Big Lips
Dislikes:
Bad Odors
Geek-ish
Chapped Lips
Nasty Dreads