Me, personally, I have been **** not to long ago and it is so hard to deal with. I am so low on my faith that God is helping me deal with this. Everytime I feel like everything is okay, this issue comes up all the time. I tried to talk with different people about it, but they really had nothing to say. How can I cope with being ****? Holla back at cha sista!
THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR REPLIES. I AM TAKING ONE DAY AT A TIME. RIGHT NOW I AM FEELIN GREAT. I REALLY THANK GOD THAT I AM STILL HERE WITH NO SICKNESSES OR WITH A CHILD, THAT WASN'T HIS WILL FOR ME TO HAVE.
THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR REPLIES. I AM TAKING ONE DAY AT A TIME. RIGHT NOW I AM FEELIN GREAT. I REALLY THANK GOD THAT I AM STILL HERE WITH NO SICKNESSES OR WITH A CHILD, THAT WASN'T HIS WILL FOR ME TO HAVE.
Me, personally, I have been **** not to long ago and it is so hard to deal with. I am so low on my faith that God is helping me deal with this. Everytime I feel like everything is okay, this issue comes up all the time. I tried to talk with different people about it, but they really had nothing to say. How can I cope with being ****? Holla back at cha sista!
my cousin was **** at FAMU, and from her experiences...girl you have to talk with someone about this, someone real just NOT ONLY GOD, a phyiscal person you can cry to and hug and gain support from as welk as god!...if you dont youll just have this unbelievable hatred and emotions building up over time...i mean my cousin who is **** now...well she went into the army to deal...wrong decision because basically it taught her **** and she slept with a gun under her bed it was that intense, she didnt trust people, she was just crazy and paranoid...even though you may think you are dealing with it ok, you need to talk to a professional , a **** counselor, specifically a BLACK FEMALE **** counselor so you can relate and wont secretly feel uncomfortable with talking...a counselor's main job is to listen and guide not preach so shop around for one...but yeah dont end up like my cousin, she died an unhappy, terrified woman who lost all joy in life...you need to talk so that you can cope because you may not know it but you eventually you are gonna have issues that you are GONNA HAVE TO TALK about to deal with life....and if you want to further deal you can also join a support group for **** victims, or even visit places and talk about your experience while you are going through the healing process or after, whichever you feel comfortable, but yeah to heal yourself you may need to heal by helping others as well and gaining joy from that...
...but i know its hard for you, but you cant deal with this burden alone or else you will slowly **** yourself mentally
Yea...sorry to hear that. Like everyone else is sayin...u need to go talk to someone about this whole situation. One of my best friends went thru this about a year ago. She went on vacation wit her family in Chi-town and her own cousin(yes her 1st cousin) **** her. And she was soo scared to tell anyone...(I hope u told someone...like yer mom or dad) She called me and i was the first person to know about it. Its a horrible thing to have to deal with. Especially because when she did tell her mom and her grandmother...everyone stopped talkin to her. AND when she got back into town...she found out she was pregnant and had to get an ****. It was sad and still is sad because that **** is something that you'll always have to live with. But the brokeness will soon heal. And u juss gotta keep yer head up. Are u on any anti-depressants or anything? Cause i know thats what my gurl had...but i dont think it helped too much.
NO, I AM NOT ON ANY ANTI-DEPRESSANT PILLS, BUT I HAD TO TAKE THOSE "MORNING AFTER PILLS" SO THAT I WOULDN'T GET PREGNANT. I HATED THOSE THINGS BECAUSE THEY MADE ME SO SICK, AND IT MESSED UP MY WHOLE SYSTEM, IF U KNOW WHAT I MEAN.
