Okay. Maybe I'm along, but I really can't understand why many, many, beautiful and intelligent woman prefer "Bad Boys", who give you nothing but heartache and pain, over the good one's. Am I the only woman who wants a man I can trust :?: I so, please tell me why you prefer "bad boys" and what the hell I am missing :!:
anyways, i said what i said and i mean what i said because i know it's the truth...
i new that many were going to disagree with me but i don't care...
it's the truth...like it or not...
nuff said... 8) :arrow:
What u said is not entirely true. Not all women are like that. Just the dumb and weak ones want a man to "control" them. Most women just want someone who they can trust to treat them right, not an asshole. We have self discipline, its just that men cant take how open minded and strong we are because his universe-sized ego gets in the way.
let me add that women are manipulative...
they never want to reveal the cards they're playing with....
you have to trust me on this one fellas...
PUT HER IN HER PLACE!
nuff said... :arrow:
*clicks "stop watching topic button*
Women are not manipulative, were smart!
We dont reveal the cards that were playing with because men cant handle them. And also we dont want to be hurt by an idiot with no feelings.
And by the way, what is "our place"?
well.. i can't speak for all young women, but i gotta put my two cents in... i'll admit, i went through a period where all i was attracted to was "bad boys." not that i necessarily preferred them over all others. it just happened to turn out that way.. since then, i stopped having a 'type' and i find myself attracted to a great variety of guys. BUT, i guess bad boys were alluring to me because of their persona and whatnot. and also the whole opposites attract thing. being a shy, quiet, good girl type, i liked boys who would compliment that - which would be loud, outgoing, bad boys.
now, even though i've moved on from my bad boy phase, i still will always stand up for the bad boys. they need love too!! now, i guess it all depends on what kind of bad boys you mean -- cuz i would never go for being in a relationship with a man who didn't respect me and treated me dirty. that just couldn't happen. that's a BAD relationship - and those who seem like nice guys to the rest of the world can be guilty of that too.. like all them domestic **** cases where everyone else thinks the husband is perfect. but sometimes, a guy might seem bad to the world but have the best heart. aiight, maybe i'm biased.. cuz the first guy i fell in love with was bad. suspended from school, expelled probably... smoked, sold that stuff, got in fights... i even seen him get carried out of school by a police officer once. and i don't know even everything he did... but i do know that he stole my heart and i'd prefer him over the best 'good guy' i know. maybe that's not reasonable, but it's real life. love isn't concerned with reason.
well.. i can't speak for all young women, but i gotta put my two cents in... i'll admit, i went through a period where all i was attracted to was "bad boys." not that i necessarily preferred them over all others. it just happened to turn out that way.. since then, i stopped having a 'type' and i find myself attracted to a great variety of guys. BUT, i guess bad boys were alluring to me because of their persona and whatnot. and also the whole opposites attract thing. being a shy, quiet, good girl type, i liked boys who would compliment that - which would be loud, outgoing, bad boys.
now, even though i've moved on from my bad boy phase, i still will always stand up for the bad boys. they need love too!! now, i guess it all depends on what kind of bad boys you mean -- cuz i would never go for being in a relationship with a man who didn't respect me and treated me dirty. that just couldn't happen. that's a BAD relationship - and those who seem like nice guys to the rest of the world can be guilty of that too.. like all them domestic **** cases where everyone else thinks the husband is perfect. but sometimes, a guy might seem bad to the world but have the best heart. aiight, maybe i'm biased.. cuz the first guy i fell in love with was bad. suspended from school, expelled probably... smoked, sold that stuff, got in fights... i even seen him get carried out of school by a police officer once. and i don't know even everything he did... but i do know that he stole my heart and i'd prefer him over the best 'good guy' i know. maybe that's not reasonable, but it's real life. love isn't concerned with reason.
I totally agree with you. You can't control who you fall in love with but you can control how you are respected in the situation.
uh hmm?? this statement is concerning BUSHPIMPS statements earlier.
if i was to flip sides and become a male...why would i want a women coming to me for everything and gettin permission from me? That just makes her seem a little weak because she needs to go to this same person over and over again to make decisions that regard her.
now back to my side.... why would i want someone else controlling my life as an adult. Your parents are there for guidance whether you like it or not but once your on your own its all on you. yes you will stumble along the way but damn you only learn from your mistakes.. that is if u dont continue to repeat them.
and dont most people disagree with your statements?
