You gotta roll with the punches,man.Learn to weed out the good from the bad.And even then, there still arent any guarantees that she will be right for you.
PrettyYellaBoy wrote: where's my halo? wrote: Sweet_Girl wrote: All I can say is don't stop being a good man we need more gentlemen out here. I am what they call wifey material and sometimes I feel like I get no love or I get treated wrong but no matter what I still keep my head up. :
Betta preach!
oh btw...to touch on what Brooklynsweetsecret said, i totally feel that. When i refer to the term "wifey", i literally mean being someone's WIFE. Peeps are too quick to desensitize something that is sacred and meaningful.
Quote: Also you just have to be more careful about what type of female you are going after because every one has their preferences that is just thew way things are.
If woman after woman keeps doing you wrong, what is the common denominator in that scenario? *jeopardy music plays*...it's you sweety. We always seem to pursue people that we know good and well are not right for us. Then later on the down the line, we talk about how "all men are dogs" or "women ain't ish but hoez and tricks". When in all truthfulness, we're responsible for our own misery most of the time. Not saying that is the case EVERY time, but in some cases we could easily prevent drama.
Excuse me, but I wasn't really feeling that statement. Yeah sometimes you get involved and you know better, but I never claimed woman after woman was doing me wrong. So please reread that before you start insinuating it's me! And personally I think everyone knows that noone is perfect so we try to give people the benefit of the doubt. So yeah in that sense we know better, but still noone ask to get played. I'd also like to clarify that this post wasn't really saying I was in a relationship and getting played over and over, it was basically saying I was pursuing and got overlooked so please understand that. It's all love though boo.
Brooklynsweetsecret wrote: Sweet_Girl wrote: I am what they call wifey material.
Yuck @ that word. No offense, but what is wifey material???That word makes me sick . Wifey gets all sorts of emotional, physical burdens of being cheated on but get excited to be the "main chick". That isn't a priviledge or an honor. I'd get upset if a guy refers to me as anything other than his girl unless we take it to fiance status.
wifey means u are capable of being someones wife............ or u are marriable..................
i, have never been referred to as that by my man tho...............
I'm his WIFE, plain and simple............
wifey is an ideology created to make females think the guy is real serious about them..................
cinnamonkiss84 wrote: Man, I have a lot of respect for what you are doing. Boy do I wish there were guys like you on my school's campus. I think you should continue to do what you do. Because those girls who do not appreciate what you are doing, are not the type of girls you want to be with anyway. Don't lower your standards for anyone or change, continue to be the sweet generous person you are. Much Love 
Thanks boo for the luv and encouraging words. I understand that I must continue to be who I am and trust in the Lord too. I'm faithful he'll send my queen to me. Once again thanks and holla.