I don't know what is wrong with these girls. I wish there were more guys like you around.....the only advice I can give you is to continue to be you and do what you do. Your efforts and hardwork may go unnoticed now, but when you find that girl who appreciates you....you will be happy you didn't give up.
Shoot, I didn't even know guys were still willing to do things like that anymore.
All I can say is don't stop being a good man we need more gentlemen out here. I am what they call wifey material and sometimes I feel like I get no love or I get treated wrong but no matter what I still keep my head up. As long as you know that you are a good person and stay true to yourself the right female will come along when the time is right. Also you just have to be more careful about what type of female you are going after because every one has their preferences that is just thew ay things are. Be confident in yourself and strive to be the best at who you are, because if you are a good man than with patience a good women should come along one day :wink:
Yuck @ that word. No offense, but what is wifey material???That word makes me sick . Wifey gets all sorts of emotional, physical burdens of being cheated on but get excited to be the "main chick". That isn't a priviledge or an honor. I'd get upset if a guy refers to me as anything other than his girl unless we take it to fiance status.
All I can say is don't stop being a good man we need more gentlemen out here. I am what they call wifey material and sometimes I feel like I get no love or I get treated wrong but no matter what I still keep my head up. :
Betta preach!
oh btw...to touch on what Brooklynsweetsecret said, i totally feel that. When i refer to the term "wifey", i literally mean being someone's WIFE. Peeps are too quick to desensitize something that is sacred and meaningful.
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Also you just have to be more careful about what type of female you are going after because every one has their preferences that is just thew way things are.
If woman after woman keeps doing you wrong, what is the common denominator in that scenario? *jeopardy music plays*...it's you sweety. We always seem to pursue people that we know good and well are not right for us. Then later on the down the line, we talk about how "all men are dogs" or "women ain't ish but hoez and tricks". When in all truthfulness, we're responsible for our own misery most of the time. Not saying that is the case EVERY time, but in some cases we could easily prevent drama.
All I can say is don't stop being a good man we need more gentlemen out here. I am what they call wifey material and sometimes I feel like I get no love or I get treated wrong but no matter what I still keep my head up. :
Betta preach!
oh btw...to touch on what Brooklynsweetsecret said, i totally feel that. When i refer to the term "wifey", i literally mean being someone's WIFE. Peeps are too quick to desensitize something that is sacred and meaningful.
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Also you just have to be more careful about what type of female you are going after because every one has their preferences that is just thew way things are.
If woman after woman keeps doing you wrong, what is the common denominator in that scenario? *jeopardy music plays*...it's you sweety. We always seem to pursue people that we know good and well are not right for us. Then later on the down the line, we talk about how "all men are dogs" or "women ain't ish but hoez and tricks". When in all truthfulness, we're responsible for our own misery most of the time. Not saying that is the case EVERY time, but in some cases we could easily prevent drama.
Excuse me, but I wasn't really feeling that statement. Yeah sometimes you get involved and you know better, but I never claimed woman after woman was doing me wrong. So please reread that before you start insinuating it's me! And personally I think everyone knows that noone is perfect so we try to give people the benefit of the doubt. So yeah in that sense we know better, but still noone ask to get played. I'd also like to clarify that this post wasn't really saying I was in a relationship and getting played over and over, it was basically saying I was pursuing and got overlooked so please understand that. It's all love though boo.
You gotta roll with the punches,man.Learn to weed out the good from the bad.And even then, there still arent any guarantees that she will be right for you.
All I can say is don't stop being a good man we need more gentlemen out here. I am what they call wifey material and sometimes I feel like I get no love or I get treated wrong but no matter what I still keep my head up. :
Betta preach!
oh btw...to touch on what Brooklynsweetsecret said, i totally feel that. When i refer to the term "wifey", i literally mean being someone's WIFE. Peeps are too quick to desensitize something that is sacred and meaningful.
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Also you just have to be more careful about what type of female you are going after because every one has their preferences that is just thew way things are.
If woman after woman keeps doing you wrong, what is the common denominator in that scenario? *jeopardy music plays*...it's you sweety. We always seem to pursue people that we know good and well are not right for us. Then later on the down the line, we talk about how "all men are dogs" or "women ain't ish but hoez and tricks". When in all truthfulness, we're responsible for our own misery most of the time. Not saying that is the case EVERY time, but in some cases we could easily prevent drama.
Excuse me, but I wasn't really feeling that statement. Yeah sometimes you get involved and you know better, but I never claimed woman after woman was doing me wrong. So please reread that before you start insinuating it's me! And personally I think everyone knows that noone is perfect so we try to give people the benefit of the doubt. So yeah in that sense we know better, but still noone ask to get played. I'd also like to clarify that this post wasn't really saying I was in a relationship and getting played over and over, it was basically saying I was pursuing and got overlooked so please understand that. It's all love though boo.
No no no, usually when i write a thread it is very general and never directed at one person. That's why i say "we" or "us". I'm speaking about people that the situation applies to. Sorry if you got that "you" twisted, but if female after female is not doing u wrong, then that comment was not for u my dear.
And i know i went off on a tangent, but hey...that's what we do here. We don't know how to stay on topic :lol: . I saw a comment that led that just so happened to lead me to another scenario.
Anywho, like everyone has kept saying. Keep doing you. If a female overlooks u, then she is not someone that u need to be concerned with. Becuz the woman that God has for you is for you (and i really mean YOU this time :lol: ), and if it's meant to be, it will come to past regardless.
Yuck @ that word. No offense, but what is wifey material???That word makes me sick . Wifey gets all sorts of emotional, physical burdens of being cheated on but get excited to be the "main chick". That isn't a priviledge or an honor. I'd get upset if a guy refers to me as anything other than his girl unless we take it to fiance status.
wifey means u are capable of being someones wife............ or u are marriable..................
i, have never been referred to as that by my man tho...............
I'm his WIFE, plain and simple............
wifey is an ideology created to make females think the guy is real serious about them..................
Man, I have a lot of respect for what you are doing. Boy do I wish there were guys like you on my school's campus. I think you should continue to do what you do. Because those girls who do not appreciate what you are doing, are not the type of girls you want to be with anyway. Don't lower your standards for anyone or change, continue to be the sweet generous person you are. Much Love
Man, I have a lot of respect for what you are doing. Boy do I wish there were guys like you on my school's campus. I think you should continue to do what you do. Because those girls who do not appreciate what you are doing, are not the type of girls you want to be with anyway. Don't lower your standards for anyone or change, continue to be the sweet generous person you are. Much Love
Thanks boo for the luv and encouraging words. I understand that I must continue to be who I am and trust in the Lord too. I'm faithful he'll send my queen to me. Once again thanks and holla.
wifey means u are capable of being someones wife............ or u are marriable..................
i, have never been referred to as that by my man tho...............
I'm his WIFE, plain and simple............
wifey is an ideology created to make females think the guy is real serious about them..................
