Trying to Change them....

In Rod We Trust · Feb 2005

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Da_Rodfather wrote:
Thats some shallow as ****forreal.

Uh oh someone's touched...lol

Blutifully Human from Washington, DC · Feb 2005

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"DaChosen1" wrote:
DaChosen1 wrote:
where's my halo? wrote:
I'll let him dress in whateva he wants. If we're in the mall or i see something cute, i might say "wow...that would look really cute on u sweety" or "ooo...i could see u rockin that", but it's all about him being comfortable. Cuz i SURELY don't want a dude tryna influence my style and what i wear. "Kenya, u should get a perm, i don't like your hair natural" , "Kenya, you should show off your figure more. Ya know, a lil more cleave &...", "Why don't u ever wear skirts or dresses?". I wear what i wear becuz i am comfortable in it & it's a reflection of who i am. If a negro doesn't like it, then he doesn't like me:arrow:
Kenya you're fine like you are. I love it if a woman would wear her hair natural or dress more discreet. It leaves more to the imagination. I mean, if a woman always show off her figure, we already have a picture of how she may look in the bed.

Dang, we need more guys like this. Where are your kind hiding :? ? Matter of fact, where are YOU hiding?

In Rod We Trust · Feb 2005

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Ms.H.B.I.C wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
Thats some shallow as ****forreal.
Uh oh someone's touched...lol

Nah but seriously if u feelin somebody why does it matter if they dont dress the same way as everybody else. Maybe thats just how they do

In Rod We Trust · Feb 2005

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I'm not sayin differently...but having no sense of style period U telling me u'd fucck with a girl if she wore colors that didnt match...shoes that was run down busted over...fit was totally wack..and just be coo with it cuz of her personality?? U wouldnt suggest to her she might need to do this and that?? If u say yes...then ur full of it...point blank

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Mountain of Molten Lust! · Feb 2005

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"where's my halo?" wrote:
DaChosen1 wrote:
DaChosen1 wrote:
where's my halo? wrote:
I'll let him dress in whateva he wants. If we're in the mall or i see something cute, i might say "wow...that would look really cute on u sweety" or "ooo...i could see u rockin that", but it's all about him being comfortable. Cuz i SURELY don't want a dude tryna influence my style and what i wear. "Kenya, u should get a perm, i don't like your hair natural" , "Kenya, you should show off your figure more. Ya know, a lil more cleave &...", "Why don't u ever wear skirts or dresses?". I wear what i wear becuz i am comfortable in it & it's a reflection of who i am. If a negro doesn't like it, then he doesn't like me:arrow:
Kenya you're fine like you are. I love it if a woman would wear her hair natural or dress more discreet. It leaves more to the imagination. I mean, if a woman always show off her figure, we already have a picture of how she may look in the bed.
Dang, we need more guys like this. Where are your kind hiding :? ? Matter of fact, where are YOU hiding?

I'm hiding in Baton Rouge at Southern University. Why I got to be a lurker?

Mountain of Molten Lust! · Feb 2005

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Like I said earlier you don't want the person make you look bad in public because of what people may say. Screw that, I'm tired of what people say. Sh!t, the rainbow might be the style tommorow with holes in the back pocket. Also, I don't know many ladies that carry themself that way. What I'm trying to emphasize is that no one should try to change another person. That makes them resist it harder. You can influence them to conform to your style, but not change them on selfish means.

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La · Feb 2005

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where's my halo? wrote:
I'll let him dress in whateva he wants. If we're in the mall or i see something cute, i might say "wow...that would look really cute on u sweety" or "ooo...i could see u rockin that", but it's all about him being comfortable. Cuz i SURELY don't want a dude tryna influence my style and what i wear. "Kenya, u should get a perm, i don't like your hair natural" , "Kenya, you should show off your figure more. Ya know, a lil more cleave &...", "Why don't u ever wear skirts or dresses?". I wear what i wear becuz i am comfortable in it & it's a reflection of who i am. If a negro doesn't like it, then he doesn't like me:arrow:

I feel you on that completely...but I do hear where Tip coming from...cause we all know that guy/girl who looks good but with a lil fashion direction they would be the shyt...I guess how I feel is I would make small suggestions here and there...and if they are open to them then really start pushing it....but if they are comfortable in what they wear and dont wanna change...i cant get mad at them for it cause I knew that that is how they liked to dress when I first started talkin to them/ got with them...whatever...so I would push the who fashion thing on them slightly if they were open to it...if they arent then I can only deal with it.

In Rod We Trust · Feb 2005

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Ms.H.B.I.C wrote:
I'm not sayin differently...but having no sense of style period U telling me u'd fucck with a girl if she wore colors that didnt match...shoes that was run down busted over...fit was totally wack..and just be coo with it cuz of her personality?? U wouldnt suggest to her she might need to do this and that?? If u say yes...then ur full of it...point blank

If she got a fatty hell she can rock a mickey mouse tee, sweats, and some damn filaz for all i care

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