Aiight so here's the big scoop. Yesterday I did the big IT for the first time. Ladies...please tell me it gets better. Cause im freakin discouraged. I was thinkin the whole time..."is this it?" the **** was not hittin the right spot. And at one point and time i was considering pushin his big a** off of me and tellin him i can do it by myself. Ya heard me?! Maybe it was because i was a virgin...i dont know...all i do know is that i never got off, but that greedy a** **** did. UGh! Then he talkin bout "Baby we gonna have to do this again!" I swear yall...I wanted to look at him like he lost his ever lovin mind! He aiint leave me wit nothin but sore a** legs and a frown walkin out. Anyone else feel that way about their first time??!!! Please let me know that im not the only one whos been thru this!!!!
I guess you can say it was another "It juss happened" story!!!
WHAT THE CLUCK!?! U did huh...i mean what...with who...i mean how....aw lawd, i can't breathe! Where the heck is my inhaler?! Oh snap, i don't even have one :? . Better yet, where is my belt?!?! :evil:
I see we're gonna have to have a lil talk miss Candy Cane. It's been TOO long
btw. I can't help ya with info on that one. I'm still holding on the the V-card....only by the grace of God tho :twisted: :lol:
LOL. :lol: I am proud of you Kenya.
giiiiirl, it ain't easy i tell ya. These negros just...lawd, i can't even speak on it. They try to test i sistah. I swear, they tryna pull me under! . Pray for me yall
im with u....pray for mee too....but see hearing stories like this just makes it kinda easier for me to wanna wait....i dont want to lose my vcard and mbe like- thats it?....so at least if its with my husband ill know for sure that i love him and he loves me and it will be beautiful despite the pain or the fact that i may not get mines
.i dont want to lose my vcard and mbe like- thats it?....so at least if its with my husband ill know for sure that i love him and he loves me and it will be beautiful despite the pain or the fact that i may not get mines
YOU GOT PUNKED!!!!!! J/P :lol:
Okay time to get serious... In situations like this it's good that you express yourself. Learn to be more verbal about what you want. He can't read your mind and what youre thinking is not gonna make him perform any better. I suggest that you read up on this before you try it again. In order for him to know you have to know. Maybe, you should try exploring by yourself to see what it is that you like. Then you can let him in on it.
It's not right that he got off and you didn't...What a waste of time.
i dont have any advicesince im also a v-card, i heard it gets better, think of it as riding a bike...ya fall a few times, then when youre finally riding straight with your weave blowing in the wind, its the greatest feeling.....well....that's what my big sissie told me
. Pray for me yall
