OMG!!! I need some help ladies!

Aiight so here's the big scoop. Yesterday I did the big IT for the first time. Ladies...please tell me it gets better. Cause im freakin discouraged. I was thinkin the whole time..."is this it?" the **** was not hittin the right spot. And at one point and time i was considering pushin his big a** off of me and tellin him i can do it by myself. Ya heard me?! Maybe it was because i was a virgin...i dont know...all i do know is that i never got off, but that greedy a** **** did. UGh! Then he talkin bout "Baby we gonna have to do this again!" I swear yall...I wanted to look at him like he lost his ever lovin mind! He aiint leave me wit nothin but sore a** legs and a frown walkin out. Anyone else feel that way about their first time??!!! Please let me know that im not the only one whos been thru this!!!! I guess you can say it was another "It juss happened" story!!!