I have a question to teh men of this board
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
Thank you Lady J *Myranda daps up Lady J* :lol:
Thats what Im talking about......being with someone who u care about and showing them that you care with lil acts of affections. When I was in a relationship I didnt mind spending here and there but it was equal. Now if its just one sided then thats a no-no
Man I aint got a problem buy gifts. But gettin her hair and nails done? Thats like buyin her soap.
The way I feel is she aint gettin all done up for me. Cuz if she my girl Imma be wit her on days she lookin rough or not. Females get all done up to impress other females or for attention. Cuz a real woman knows she look good when she done up or in sweats and a tee.
I have a question to teh men of this board
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
yup...it's always good for a woman to know that she has that sercurity...i would if i could but i can't right now with muh walmart salary...gimme bout 3 years...n!gga bout to move into his own apartment in about 2 months....i'll be wearing one of those red jackets in no time!
nails, shopping spree, clothes...but car note? that's on you, boo...if i could afford it, you know i would...
it just shows her that you can take care of her...8) >>(stacy dash)
If you can do.
If you can't don't.
Some dudes just don't have the cash flow.
You always gotta take care of home first and foremost.
But the one thing I really hate to see is a dude with steady cashflow acting stingy with his girl.
That's your girl.
She's your silent soldier.
She'll go to bat for you in all types of battles you'd never ever know or find out about.
I must treat my woman special at all times.
But then again I've got the cashflow to do things like that.
All men don't.
Doesn't make me a pushover or a simp but secure.
I give a woman 100% from the jump.
If she's not giving back to me in a relationship or friendship then that percentage dwindles.
A female only has one strike with me.
If you can't independently discern the manner of man that I am from dealing with me as a mature black woman then I need to keep it moving.
The way I feel is she aint gettin all done up for me. Cuz if she my girl Imma be wit her on days she lookin rough or not. Females get all done up to impress other females or for attention. Cuz a real woman knows she look good when she done up or in sweats and a tee.
Lol...I really think you are just missing the point of this thread. If you dont wanna spend your money on ya girl...then just say that, cause to me it seems like you coming up with every reason not to spend ya money on her. But the point aint about dudes giving us money for hair and nails ( i think she was just using that as an example cause we can relate to it the most), but is it something you like and want to do. But it really aint even about hair and nails...you could be out with ya girl and she sees a nice outfit she wants, and cause you got extra money in ya pocket you OFFER to buy it for her...or you like just surprising her with material things every now and then that you know she would like or want just cause you want too.
Oh yea....and ya comment about girls get all did up just to impress all girls is definitely a very general statement...cause someone like me...I KEEP my nails and hair done...regardless of whether Im rockin a cute outfit or sweatpants ( which is what I wear on a usual basis anyway ) I know look cute. Me keeping my nails and hair done is just a treat for myself that I like to keep...regardless of whether I got a man or not. The fact of the matter is a " real "woman does what she does cause its her perogative...not cause she tryin to stunt for nobody.
...if i could afford it, you know i would...
it just shows her that you can take care of her...8) >>(stacy dash)
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW You say a lot of sweet stuff... :wink:
Your not so bad.
No, this isn't the way it's supposed to be...he get's yourgirltasia..I get Brett...lol..
I want to show girls I care too...pick me pick me..(damn Im bored)..
If she's not wifey I'm not paying for her nails, taking her shopping, etc. I'm not a trick. I'll look out for her here and there depending on how much money she invested in me.
...if i could afford it, you know i would...
it just shows her that you can take care of her...8) >>(stacy dash)
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW You say a lot of sweet stuff... :wink:
Your not so bad.
No, this isn't the way it's supposed to be...he get's yourgirltasia..I get Brett...lol..
I want to show girls I care too...pick me pick me..(damn Im bored)..
Imma cosign with Ms. B and Imma laugh at you because u reminding me of that donkey from shrek........
PICK ME PICK ME!!!!!!!!!!!
LMMFBAO..............
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
