my sister sent me this email.............
and i really liked it..............
so i thought I'd share it with you ladies
BITCHOLOGY
When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a ****.
When I stand up for those I love, they call me a ****.
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they
call me a ****.
Being a **** means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It
means I live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am
defined as a ****.
The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being
everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly
am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I
am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is
nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every
ounce of beauty I hold wi! thin me. You won't succeed.
And if that makes me a ****, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to
bear it.
B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself
B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman
B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything
"If you want something done right, get a woman to do it."
the concept is great, but i still do not like the term ****, its degrading, the term means female dog, and i am no dog, i don't fetch, i don't **** on the floor, i dont bark at command. I am not saying any of the females on here are **** either, you are strong black women not ****, the term **** was given to women from men because they couldn't control their women, so i wouldn't say an intelligent, beautiful, dertermined, astonishing black woman, is a ****.. just a strong woman
:lol: Im Really Feeling That... I guess I wouldnt Mind if I used B.I.T.C.H among my female friends. Itz all positive now... hehe... I still think It has a totally different meaning when men say it though... Watch out now.
